How often do you go out?

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I don't.

Well this year anyway. :sad3:

I am so over staying at home and rarely going out. Food shopping is my weekly/fortnightly outing.

Last year and the year before that and the year before that etc etc I complained if even one of my weekends was not fulfilled with things to do 24/7.

We'd always be out, whether it be Dreamworld, mates etc.

I've gone out a few times this year and even then it was depressing due to having no real money to enjoy it.

Stupid car repayments. <_<

I always see people at work updating their facebook status to, "I'm at this restaurant" or " I'm at this festival" etc etc.

They spend like crazy. Just about every night they're out at some fancy place. I mean good on em' but what about me? :sad3:

Now, what about you?
 
I am finally employed this year, so I can afford to go out during the week. The two big nights people go out are Thursdays and Mondays. I have only gone out Mondays this year because not many people have been heading out on Thursdays, well people I like. Two nights is the most I'd go out a week I guess, I do not care for being hungover in uni
 
I go to a club with friends once a month. I go out to restaurants about once a week though. I stay home working alot so going out is such a nice change to my average home/school/groceries routine. A good 60% of the time I'm being taken out by others who pay for me so my wallet doesn't suffer that bad. I still need to find a job though. D=
 
Eh I hardly ever go out on nights out anymore, I used to be out almost every weekend, sometimes all weekend, now for the most part I just cant be arsed

il try to head out once a week for tea with the girls, but more often than not im at home, me and clare havent been on a night out in so long ive had to get one arranged becasue its just shocking that we have suddenly got that boring but most we tend to do is have a night in at mine, bottle (or 3 ) of wine and loads of food.

I do enjoy nights out and heading to the pub when i can with the work lads, but i cant say im all that arsed about it that much anymore

I got old and I didnt notice :sad3:
 
Seeing as I work nights and every weekend now I miss the usual weekend pub shenanigans by default. I have Mondays and Tuesdays off though so if I do go out (Pub, friend activities, dates etc) its either one of those two but usually nothing special is going on. I try and go to gigs as much as possible, and use up most of my 'holiday' on them. Think I average a big gig once every 3 months or something, with smaller ones dotted about the place. It's hard to have a decent social life when working hours get in the way, as obviously when im free most of my friends aren't or not up for doing anything big because of their own.

Basically I just don't get out enough as I'd like :hmph:
 
Since I have to work in the afternoon every single weekend, it's really hard for me to go out. I like to at least request one Saturday off every month, so I can go out and dedicate some time for myself. Right now specially this year though, I have been caught up with school and work mostly. I have enjoyed doing both and I have had a lot of fun, so I can't really complain. :)

Moonchild said:
Seeing as I work nights and every weekend now I miss the usual weekend pub shenanigans by default. I have Mondays and Tuesdays off though so if I do go out (Pub, friend activities, dates etc) its either one of those two but usually nothing special is going on. I try and go to gigs as much as possible, and use up most of my 'holiday' on them. Think I average a big gig once every 3 months or something, with smaller ones dotted about the place. It's hard to have a decent social life when working hours get in the way, as obviously when im free most of my friends aren't or not up for doing anything big because of their own.

Basically I just don't get out enough as I'd like :hmph:
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LOL I have Mondays and Tuesdays off too. although, that helps me a lot with school, it's really hard to keep your social life alive when you have to work every weekend. One good thing that I have noticed about not going out though, is that you don't spend that much money. :) So there is some positive things about this after all.
 
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since i moved, i can count the number of times i've been and gotten pissed on one hand. before then though, i was out most weeks, or twice a week a lot of the time as well.
me and my flatmate don't have jobs so can't particularly afford to go out much, and my other mates have jobs and work evenings a lot of the time, so it's very rare that we can ever go out at all.

i've become a recluse. :sad3:
 
I don't go out with friends very often... I live far away from the town my friends live near so it's always expensive to travel in, and I'm not yet comfortable driving down the dual carriageway at night, as people will go at insane speeds! :(

Most of my 'nights out' are spent at Chris' house instead of my own. We occasionally go out to a local pub with his friends, mind. :) Thankfully I don't like alcohol, so these nights out are relatively inexpensive! :P

I go out for family meals once or twice a month.
 
:hmmm: I used to go out a lot and would go to town for drinks at least one night a week, but lately I am a bit meh about going out. I don't really enjoy town as much as I used to. I am a bit lazy.

I make sure I go out and see my friends at least once or twice a week though, whether it is for lunch or to go to the beach or something, I don't want to be a complete hermit :wacky:

I'm going out next weekend, hopefully it will get me out of my funk again and I'll start going out more often, though I really don't mind staying home at all.
 
I don't have my license, a job or friends that drive anymore... so not a lot. i feel like a basement geek sometimes.
 
In a social sense, very rarely. Months can pass without me doing anything social. Sometimes I have friends round, and today I'm going for a birthday meal for a friend. So this week is oddly social for me, but not representative of my life.

Ridiculously that has been the way it always has been with me, even as a teenager. Neither at school or at uni did I socialise in pubs or clubs much. I was stupidly shy and I never had those crazy social 'woo-hoo! :woot:' days, and I'm too old and broke to ever have those days now. :hmmm: Damn. :argor:

Though, other than the feeling that I've missed out on a fairly big thing / rites of passage, I don't really mind. I'd rather do more interesting things socially... Unfortunately these do not exist yet, or are too hard to find (you need to be within certain loops and know the right people to know when they occur). I'd rather socialise only very little but be able to go to amazing things like battle re-enactments (as an example of something I must go to one day) than go to the pub every Friday. I never gain anything from a pub... Only other people's sorrows, other people's complaints, and other people's talking. I can rarely get a word in, and when I can I cannot since I'm too baffled by the whole event to know what I can say in response. :O
 
I'm a complete social recluse; I never, ever go out with people these days. I have some acquaintances at University that I get along with fairly well, but I've never been asked to go out with them for a drink or whatever, and I doubt I'd accept the invitation if I was, not only because I don't drink, but because I expect I'd just feel awkward and out of place. I used to go places with the friends I had at College all the time, but they've scattered across the country for University, and I've not seen any of them for getting on four years now. So nope, what passed as a social life for me died, and has little or no chance of resurrection.

Yeah, I know, I'm a complete loser~
 
I only go out when i need to, like to buy groceries, get a haircut, a new game, etc. Other than that i just stay at home and keep myself occupied. When i can't find anything to do i just sleep or clean or cook if i can find the stuff i need to make the dish i want, if not that's when i'll go out to buy the ingrediants to make said dish.
 
Honestly, not as often as I would like to and it's not even that I don't have friends to chill with like that. My best girl friends are always inviting me to something but I always would shoot em down at the last minute 'cause some stupid assignment needed to be finished. School's far more important than staying out all night partying at a club. I'll definitely have time for partyin' during the summer though. I'm going iiiiin. I've gotten all of my shit done, pretty much, I just need to maintain the grades for next semester and keep proving that I'm serious about maintaining those A's and B's. Sometime later on in June, one of my girl friend's mutual friends is planning this no-parents-allowed barbecue, much liquor will be passed around, designated drives with valid licenses will be assigned, and best believe that I'll be chowing down on some hot dogs, burgers, and fries while chugging on some beer and shit. I'm gonna get totally smashed and not really care.
 
I used to be out 3 nights a week without fail. Thursday night after work wed hit the town. Then friday and satarday night out in the town was always on. Sometimes you wouldnt manage the satarday after a heavy friday night though. Always used to be big groups of us that went out aswell. Then as time passed everyone kinda grew apart. Most of my pals had been in long relationships, some bad stuff happened with them and once they split our group kinda fell apart. I went through a bad period myself and shut alot of my friends out of my life for a long time. I havent seen one of my best mates in months now. I still consider him a great mate but hes busy with his new house and his woman and ive got my own house and stuff to deal with now too.

Its sad looking back actually how things have turned out. We always had such good times and i miss those days alot. Nowadays im never out in clubs. Its never really been my scene anyway tbh, I prefer a good pub as im not a dancer. But its not the clubs i miss Its being out with loads of buddies i miss most. Nowadays for me anyway i tend to just go out on satarday afternoons with jimmy and have a few beers and some food, shoot some pool or whatever. Dont get me wrong i enjoy that alot and Jims one of the 2 people in the world i consider my closest friend. I just miss the old days where wed go round to someones house and start drinking before catching the 10pm bus into town and meeting everyone else there. Growing up and growing apart really sucks.
 
I just go to the pub probably once a month, at most. I used to go out clubbing but don't any more. I can't really be bothered these days & plus I don't have the money right now, so I mostly spend it going to the Cinema if I do fancy an evening out, maybe with a meal too.
My life is so boring :ohshit:
 
My friend and I go out on Tuesday nights because are movie has a $5 movie deal that night. That's the only night I ever get out anymore.
 
I go to a friend's house nearly every night, go to the pool almost every day in the summer, and I'm gonna be going on several trips this week (beach with friends, Knoebles (theme park) with friends, Dorney with sis and her friend, and to my relatives to hang out and go see the Dark Knight Rises). And then next week I'm going to a bar to celebrate a friend's birthday. Those are really the only times I go 'out' out....like bars and stuff. For friend's birthdays or occasional hanging out with friend's at school. But I'm more of a chill at home, hang out, and drink in the safety of my apartment type person. Not really a 'go out clubbin' type girl. So I'm kinda social. I've been more social recently than in the past. But I'm not really over the top like my younger sis. I'm more the introvert out of the two of us.
 
I go out about every single day except when on exams' week or the like. Though, usually it's no drinks or weed. We save that for weekend, so all of the people we know are there. but yea for me I go out almost everyday with different people. I just don't enjoy sitting at home anymore, I feel like I'm choking in here0. Still, I'm not one to update my status or whatever the fk every 5 mins. I hang out to enjoy not to update my facebook or whatever.
 
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