Miserable People

[Kandy-Sugar]

You know those people who are just annoyed by everything?

They really shit me off.

You could be talking about anything and then they bring their stinky negative attitude to the table and have a cry about whatever you're talking about.

Even the way they speak makes you cringe because they always talk so whiny, or have to delve deep into things and give a massive explanation as to why said topic of conversation is shit.

Fair enough if you don't like something, but it's those particular people who are ALWAYS like this and it's only to be expected from them. It's like they enjoy being like that in a sick sort of way.

They can never just be nice or look at anything in a positive light.

Nothing you say will ever get a positive reaction. I pity those people. They need a root or something I swear.

Fucking die miserable and alone then. Don't bring that shit near me though!

 

[greenyxi]

I don't think they are miserable on purpose. Who would want that? When you're properly miserable, like depressed, you don't think about putting on a nice, polite act of positivity, because you don't particularly care about setting up a stage and putting on a show for others.

Just my 2 cents, although I don't really know who/what this is about specifically.

 

[Bambi]

negative peopel annoy me, im negative alot, but those that just constantly try to bring the mood down really get on my nerves. Woe is me, the world is against me etc. Oh do shut up. The culprits are generally seen woe is me'ing all over facebook lol

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

It's not about anyone in particular although someone I know IRL really does belong in this category and was kind of my inspiration for the thread.

Every day is such a fucking drama with her. She LOVES having something to worry about, otherwise her day is meaningless.

You can never say anything without her going, "Well you know [insert judgemental whiny bitchy comment]"

There are others that come to mind when I think of this but mainly my mother.

 

[Shaissa]

Honestly yes
Not like the people that are having a bad day for a good reason, or those that just seem to be in a bad mood that day.
Just those that every day seem to never have anything good to say or anything good in there life, and want to bring everyone down with them, yeah they annoy me.
I just have to go like "Really, is your life always 100% bad, that you have nothing at all good to say?"

 

[Starships]

These people are usually depressed or have a mental illness. The thing is that they can't be happy or they can't look on the bright side of life because mental illnesses don't work that way. They can't wake up one day and be like " I'll be positive today " ! They can't.

I'm so sorry that they bring you down, because it's not all that easy.

Fucking die miserable and alone then.

What a rude thing to say. Considering most depressed and anxious people do die alone, by killing themselves. Why ? Because ignorant people think that they are too whiny and negative and why can't they just smile, even though it's a huge effort for them most days to get out of fucking bed.

 

[Kandy-Sugar]

You can pretty much tell who the sooks are and who the seriously mentally ill people are.

The people who have no reason to be miserable are whiny and ridiculous and love attention and want to bring you down because they're so unsatisfied with their own lives.

This is a thread about THOSE sort of people. The ones that are just plain horrible for no reason. It's not about being mean to people who have serious issues.

Even if they did have something tragic happen to them, or are depressed, it doesn't make it okay to make other people feel like shit just to makes themselves feel better or superior.

The majority of people who have an excuse for the way they are usually don't put that out there and want people to think nothings wrong anyway.

 

[L]

well i think there is a reason why someone once said "misery loves company"

but all i have to say is thank fuck for fff, it's like my sanctuary. you visit an online game's forum or something, it's always like that.

negative peopel annoy me, im negative alot, but those that just constantly try to bring the mood down really get on my nerves. Woe is me, the world is against me etc. Oh do shut up. The culprits are generally seen woe is me'ing all over facebook lol

welcome to why i don't log into facebook that much, it annoys me when people use their status update as a soapbox

 

[Marquis of Granby]

These people are usually depressed or have a mental illness. The thing is that they can't be happy or they can't look on the bright side of life because mental illnesses don't work that way. They can't wake up one day and be like " I'll be positive today " ! They can't.

I'm so sorry that they bring you down, because it's not all that easy.

nice diagnosis, doctor. compassion is nice. fortunately no one is obliged to give a shit about every single person on the planet.

What a rude thing to say. Considering most depressed and anxious people do die alone, by killing themselves. Why ? Because ignorant people think that they are too whiny and negative and why can't they just smile, even though it's a huge effort for them most days to get out of fucking bed.

yeah kandy. how dare you force people to kill themselves by being ignorant!

The people who have no reason to be miserable are whiny and ridiculous and love attention and want to bring you down because they're so unsatisfied with their own lives.

you don't need a reason to be depressed. some people do have one (whether that eases your mind or not i dont know), sometimes it's just a seemingly random chemical imbalance.

Even if they did have something tragic happen to them, or are depressed, it doesn't make it okay to make other people feel like shit just to makes themselves feel better or superior.

i agree.

The majority of people who have an excuse for the way they are usually don't put that out there and want people to think nothings wrong anyway.

some people care about the stigma around mental health, others dont.

 

[Shu]

It depends of the demographic. I have "acquaintances" that I have to hang around because of friends of friends. They feel the need to invite them along I guess because of obligatory satisfaction, even though they drag themselves around with a tail between their legs.

Women and men, I'm sorry but you are not attractive when you do this, nor do people give a shit when you are "always" down. I have a heart, don't get me wrong, but if I find out you pathologically do this to get attention, or just to talk about yourself, then I have a question for you. Why?

Why the hell are you so up your own ass that you feel the need to do this? I don't expect you to be happy 24/7, those people I couldn't trust. Negativity is fine as long as it is realism. If realism is a discussion point, then so be it let's talk about it. Though if I'm having a shitty day, I'm probably going to be a little bit more pissy about the subject, so there is no sense in talk about it at this point. I can be a down right ass, if I hear you complaining. In fact, I will tell you to shut up. I am very direct. Man or Woman, be that not every problem is big. Also there are far worst things that could be going on.

Also last thing I have to say is... if you have to talk about everyone elses flaws/ problems/ stories.. then you are not a very interesting person. You have no life story. Be cognizant of those around you. Be humble sometimes will ya?

 

[Harlequin]

Yeah I don't really like hanging out too much with miserable people mainly because their negative attitude brings moods down and makes it hard to enjoy anything, but also because it's infectious and the next thing you know you're feeling a little miserable yourself!

But I think it's sad that people shun miserable people. Yeah it's insufferable sometimes how they can be so self absorbed but these people obviously don't need their misery worsened by being ignored or sidelined by society. That said, only they can help themselves. You can't have the attitude of a negative person and expect happiness to find you, all that negativity is like a poison that destroys relationships and opportunities even when people are incredibly patient and understanding with you.

 

[Bambi]

These people are usually depressed or have a mental illness. The thing is that they can't be happy or they can't look on the bright side of life because mental illnesses don't work that way. They can't wake up one day and be like " I'll be positive today " ! They can't.

I'm so sorry that they bring you down, because it's not all that easy.



What a rude thing to say. Considering most depressed and anxious people do die alone, by killing themselves. Why ? Because ignorant people think that they are too whiny and negative and why can't they just smile, even though it's a huge effort for them most days to get out of fucking bed.

tbf, if that was the case a lot of people would be considered depressed, some people are just generally negative and annoying, I dont think she's trying to say people with mental illnesses need to get over it, some people just like to bring other people down or like to moan about anything and everyone, or go on and on about their exes and their current girl/boyfriends. Or how annoying thier current ones are, or how their lives are oh so much more worse than yours like having a bad day is some sort of competion. People with depression tend to keep it hidden rather than announcing it to the world and his dog

 

[Squid]

I think overly positive people are more annoying than negative, miserable people.
but yeah, it's pretty annoying when you talk to someone and the first thing that comes out are their woes and issues and how bad their life is....

 

[Paddy McGee]

I feel everybody is entitled to have somebody to listen to their nagging problems- no matter how small- but, within reason. To expect a person's attention for your problems at every meeting is quite inconsiderate.

Don't get me wrong; I certainly do care about my fellow man, and would be willing to help most people. I also have had my own dives into the "misery pit of DOOM". But life doesn't revolve around fixing every little problem in which the world might throw at them.


Fact of the matter is that giving out and ranting about a problem won't get rid of it.

I've never been to a party in which one persons mood dampened the night- mainly due to three reasons:

That they usually get cheered up by the nonsense/bullshittery going on.

The person gets the hint that a party is neither the time nor place to have a moan.

Or somebody talks some sense into them quickly.


Still, everybody deserves the chance to have a moan now and again.

 

[The Master]

I know a few people and I just don't understand it... It doesn't feel good to be grouchy and pissed off all the time. Would it kill you to smile every now and then? :/

 

[Koloth]

To me, it seems the people with the easiest lives are the biggest complainers. While people, who had it rough and always struggled, seem to be the ones who try to cheer everybody up.

 

[Starships]

tbf, if that was the case a lot of people would be considered depressed, some people are just generally negative and annoying, I dont think she's trying to say people with mental illnesses need to get over it, some people just like to bring other people down or like to moan about anything and everyone, or go on and on about their exes and their current girl/boyfriends. Or how annoying thier current ones are, or how their lives are oh so much more worse than yours like having a bad day is some sort of competion. People with depression tend to keep it hidden rather than announcing it to the world and his dog

Oh sorry. Thanks for clearing things up. I think I understand now. I apologize for getting angry and emotional about this.

To me, it seems the people with the easiest lives are the biggest complainers. While people, who had it rough and always struggled, seem to be the ones who try to cheer everybody up.

It's normal to be like this ? Because whenever I'm having a bad day, or feeling sad I always go and cheer everybody up. It's so strange.

 

[Busta]

My friends usually arent that bad that they tick me off when they go in their "Negative Nancy" kind of mood. I'll joke with them, help them out, make fun of them or take them out drinking or something to cheer them up. But they're my friends, of course I'll ahve their back and put up with them.

When it comes to people at work, people just trying to ruin other people's day's or someone just feeling sorry for themself and they want to have a pissing contest with who's had the worst day, I just don't let it act like it bothers me. If I don't walk away mid-sentence of theirs, once gthey finish their little gripe story I hit them with the reply "Cool story Bro." Either that or I tell them to quit being a loser, pansy, just suck it up and fix your circumstances instead of belly-aching about it.

Now granted their are some people who just down-right have it crappy, but there's a lotta bitchin' going on from people who just want attention and don't know how good they got it.

 

[Tyler Breeze]

My Mom is like this mostly. This is why I find it kinda hard to be around her most of the time. She's just too much of a downer and depressing. Then, to top it all off, she criticizes everything you do while in her presence. It's very annoying and pretty dumb, but she's my Mom so I'll put up with it, no matter how bad it pisses me off.

Other than her, there's really nobody that I talk to that seems/is miserable. I guess that's good. I always try to be as happy as possible, even if I'm feeling down.

 

[Donald Trump]

I am a miserable person.
And I feel that you non-miserable people are being too negative towards us. In fact, a lesser man or woman, sexism is wrong, might accuse many of you of hypocrisy.
Anyway this thread does not seem to be about miserable people. This thread seems to be about people who bring other people down. Like Jesus, I believe in tolerance, and I think we should be more tolerant of people who feel the need to insult people.
Mhm aha.