Annoying friends/ex-friends

[Kandy-Sugar]

GRRR!

I'm am so sick of this person who is no longer my friend anymore!

We had been friends for about 8 years since year 8, but had only gotten really close once high school ended.

Anyway, due to the fact that she is a selfish little bitch, who thinks it's okay to slap me and whatever, I decided that this is the last straw and I want her out of my life!

We had a huge fight back in 2007 and we didn't speak for about 5 months. However, me being the nice person I am, decided to give her another chance because she seemed genuinely sorry and promised to be a better person etc.

Anyway one year later and I'm over it. I can't be her friend anymore. She went back to her old ways and she's also very immature for her age. I'm on a totally different level to her and our conversations are always weird because she doesn't understand any of the 'big' words I say.

Anyway one of the annoying things she always does when we used to have a fight was that she would come into my work, when I was working and try and make-up.

I'm like 'This is not the time or place to start with!' (Wonders why the hell she hasn't got a job to be at the lazy cow. It's not like she's studying or has anything better to do other than bleach her hair.)

Anyway just yesterday she comes into my new workplace with her mother and I bolted. I ran out the back and hid because there is no way I was letting her ruin my job. I had only just started work there a month ago. It would look bad if I started fighting with her at the front of the store!

But yeah. The sad part is that she can't let go of our relationship and I have no problem with it. I don't really feel like I'm losing anything important. She was never a good quality friend and I have no idea why I stayed friends with her for so long.

Has anyone else ever had this happen to them before or have similar stories to share?

 

[Kei]

Maybe she loves you in a different way.

Anyway there's a friend which I don't consider him as a friend, he's fucking annoying and he's too fucking nosy and always asks about personal things, I mean it's my fucking PERSONAL life, hence PERSONAL, you don't need to know what is happening in my personal life.

I never thought of him as a friend, yet he suddenly told me "Best Friends" and I was like " WTF?" I don't even know you well, I have a best friend and he has been mine for 9 years now and he's just like me but this guy I'm talking about is no way near my personality or anything like it, he's just a spoiled little brat who thinks he's so cool.

He even asks about my love life and what so, I like to keep things for my own and don't like others to be nosy, he always tells me about how he broke up with his girlfriend because he like the other girlfriend more, I mean get fucked. =\

So anyway he started lately to cross the line and I warned him a few times that he crossed and told him to not take things with me as if Imma tell him everything and then he went all mad and we got in a fight, after a couple of days he just went all friendly again like nothing happened, so I just started to ignore everything he says and it's giving me results so far.

(There are really some weird people out there O_O)

 

[Shu]

Well I'm not an ass to people who annoy me, so when they linger I usually start looking in all types of directions while my stomach gets balled up in a knot.. then a headache occurs.. then I start tapping my foot sort of like a nervous twitch..

Uh Yea, friends who annoy me. I've had a few but then they are good people so I look past that. I mean some are overly chatty.. (which I can attribute to the feminine side of them, NO OFFENSE TO THE LADIES!) but seriously they talk.. and talk.. and in real life if you know me I'm about as silent as they come unless it is a topic that interests me. Otherwise I'd be talking out of my ass and rambling, which I hate to do because it is nonsense, but I do have to fake conversations quite often so I don't seem like a jackass. I mean Football interests me, but particular teams in the NFL don't. I mean when someone says "HOW CAN YOU NOT LIKE ATL FALCONS OH MY GOD.. THEY HAVE...." I'm like.. dude everyone has their damn bias as for a teams come. I honestly could never watch a day of NFL football again and be perfectly happy. My favorite sport is considered to be a pansy sport here in the states (soccer or futbol), so I don't often run into people who like to play or talk about it.

I mean I have meat heads that are friends as well. Their mentality is .. Oh hey let's go work out and then 3 hours later I get another phone call they and ask if I wanted to meet up with some girls.. I'm like bud, I have a girl and I'm beyond 21, the bar days are overrated for now and plus I'm out of pocket for money. Unless of course its a sports bar, then I can relax and enjoy a brew and have a good time. These people never tend to want to grow up no matter if they have a degree and are working full time or not. At some time they have to realise commitment will occur or they will be alone one day with nothing to show for it.

The friend who annoy me the most though are the ones who frown down upon me for being in a long term relationship, because that's not the way I used to be. Now I'm not saying I was any sort of ladies man, and no I've never had a one night stand, but I'm a very social fellow when I go out and did have a good time. Yes, admittedly girls did enjoy my company, but I wasn't there for other people's expense I was there to let go more often than not. So now a days when they ask "When are you gonna let go of your baggage?" or "Hey so when are we gonna hit up the bars.. ?" I know exactly.. I mean EXACTLY what goes through their head. I mean they could be joking, but more often times than not I know they aren't. So they annoy the crap out of me.

That's about it though, people will always have their quirks.

 

[Big Casino]

Hmmm i dont have any ex pals who are like this at all. I know a lot of people most of who i dont see that often we all went our seperate ways after leaving school, getting jobs etc.
What i can say is that there are annoying characteristics my friends have that really piss me off. My best mate for example. Super nice guy, but sometimes when he gets drunk hes the most aggressive person in the world. Obviously not agressive towards me but just to random people who look at him the wrong way, or theyl do something small and he just flips =/ Its not cool at all, what annoys me more is the fact that he blames his actions on being drunk....thats just fukin stupid.
I have another friend whos basically the same, cept hes too protective of his girlfriend, he goes off the wall when another guy looks at her....i mean what does he expect if theyre out on a friday night and shes in a dress, he looks at other girls, so whats his problem.*sighs
Both of these guys are due up in court on assault charges in the coming months, and it isnt the ifrst time theyve been up either, theyre jus gonna end up landin themselves in jail if they carry on. Why cant people ever learn theyre lesson. =/

But at the end of the day theyre still my mates

 

[Lirael]

There is one friend in particular I can talk about here...

We met when I was 9 and she was 6. Because my school at the time had long holidays, my parents couldn't look after me. I spent the days with her grandmother; her mother worked in my school and heard that my parents were looking for a childminder.

Anyway...cut a long story short, we became like sisters very quickly, and remained as such for about... five or six years? We argued over silly things like who'd get the last chocolate egg. We played with beanie babies. We collected Pokemon cards together. We both fancied Donny Osmond, then Richard Chamberlain, and watched The Rose and the Slipper ALL the time. We went on a holiday with my parents and spent the evenings drinking hot chocolate and eating easter eggs and cookies. We played hide and seek with her neighbour and accidentally let her guineapigs mate, causing about 20 babies to be born over the years. (That really was a TERRIBLE accident! ) We walked dogs together in her village and fussed over a little Jack Russel called Daisy, pretending that she was in love with another dog who we walked called Skipper.

Then she moved house and fell ill. Before moving, she had been a little overweight, so hadn't been popular at school. But being ill, she lost weight. When she returned to school, she received a lot of positive attention. So she ate less, got thinner, got more popular and became a member of a clique.

The change in our friendship was almost immediate. She became addicted to her new friends and, like them, wanted to spend her time perfecting her make-up, chasing boys, curling her hair, shopping for tiny tiny clothes that didn't fit...and not a lot else. :S

For years now, she's been saying we need to meet and that she misses me, but every time I do, she either invites someone else along then ignores me, calls me someone else, or doesn't talk to me about anything because she's annoyed at a boy.

When I went to Uni, she told me that I had abandoned her. We hadn't spoken properly in two or three years. Yet she called me and begged to visit. I agreed, hoping (as I had done many times before) that we'd spend a good day together. Then she revealed that she wanted a boy to visit my flat too. She wanted to meet him at my flat and keep it a secret from her mother. Coming to mine was just an excuse. :/ Still, I let her visit. The boy didn't turn up. So she spent the entire weekend in a bad mood, refused to talk to me, refused to eat, then ate all of my cereal, chocolate and some bread rolls.

She asked to visit me again in third year, this time on the way to meet another boy; she told me that she wanted to tell her mum that she was visiting me because she thought her mum wouldn't be happy about her visiting this boy.

So I said no.

I haven't officially ended the friendship, but I really don't respect her anymore. I keep wanting to tell her how I feel, but I doubt I'll gain anything from it. I'll just end up looking spiteful.

I hate users.

 

[Benrir]

oh i can name a few, but one in particular: we used to go the same school beofre I moved, and she was nice at first but then quickly became a stalker, constantly stalking me and hugging me wherever she could. It became annoying quick so I hid wherever I could, escaping to toilets or using my ninja skills to dissapear out of view. But then she got angry cause I was avoiding her so I hanged out with her and it kept repeating until I told her straight. Now she scorns me, what's a guy got to do? sigh, what a nightmare it was :S

 

[Squid]

In year 7 in primary school i met my best friend at the time, Karina. She was weird but I was a little weird back then too so we kind of clicked. We remained friends into highschool until about year 10 when I had started to grow up a bit and she was still overly immature and odd.

She wasn't nasty or horrible or anything but she had become really churchy and preachy because she had met another group of friends. It became annoying talking to her only to have God shoved down my throat. Also at the time my other friend was trying to sabotage my friendship with Karina by spreading really gross rumours, who knows why.

No matter what Karina would not get the hint that I didn't want to be her friend any more so I ended up just avoiding her until she realised that I was not interested in being her friend any more.

The end.

 

[Will Graham]

I cannot really remember any ex-friends, I am sure I have plenty though as I have gotten bored an stopped talking to people I knew for years. It is a very nice habit of mine

My best pal in the world has a few annoying habits, for example he never texts back or answers his phone. I have known him nine years and he's always a pain to get hold of, which is aggravating when trying to organise things. Everyone says this to him, but he just laughs

My best female pal is a bit of a slut, which I have no problem with at all. She can get with whomever she likes, it is just the way she acts after. She strings a guy a long for a while, and while she is she treats her pals like crap. She has no interest in chatting with us, or just talks about how great the guy is. Then she drops them and picks up a new squeeze