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Rorolina Frixell

Rorolina Frixell

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i personally can't stand bullying mainly because it has lead me to attempt suicide on 5 seperate occasions and still haunts me today franctly parents need to get a tighter grip on their children and bring them up rather than drag them up and teach their children how to be respectful and considerate of other people regardless of what may be wrong or different about them
 
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Mopey people suck. Quit bitching. Do something about it. And you can't commit suicide 5 times because "committing" anything means you succeeded. I'm sorry if you feel bad because of mean people... but seriously there are ALWAYS going to be mean people. I know you're 15 but seriously hit the gym or at least learn how to talk big.
 
sorry i meant attempt suicide and i do talk big now and my height is dominating on most people and i also do 'hit the gym' now and i am now feared by most of the people who i used to be shit-scared of me which is a bonus :)
 
You're sick, you know that? Running away from your fears and trying to intimidate others is not "progress", and trying to muscle your way out of life's problems isn't going to work. There will ALWAYS be people stronger than you, trying to boss you around, and unless you stand up to them and say "no", you're not going to get anywhere in this world.
 
Very good. That doesn't mean you have to be mean but being intimidating doesn't ever hurt. Just don't intimidate the women. lol Then what's the problem?

EDIT: I don't think he was saying he's being the bully... just that he is not being picked on anymore because he's big and Grrr
 
Standing up to bullies usually results in an ass-kicking, but they'll still beat you up if you don't stand up to them. A person's only got one choice, stand up to the bully, take the beatdown, then keep standing up to him/her, when they realize you're not afraid of them, they might go pick on someone else who would be intimidated by them. FYI, that ''Tell the teacher'' garbage doesn't work, it only pisses them off.
 
LMAO! God I would so rant but Saix would end up giving me another "that's not mod behavior" speech. Soooo weak. That's all I have to say. Seriously, I was never the cool kid. I always talked shit to the bullies. And I always got away with things no one else could have. Just grow a pair and don't let them bother you. I don't even understand how this is so hard.
 
Depending on what kind of bullying, you can respond in different ways. If it's verbal, all you have to do is acknowledge they're utterly pathetic individuals, and walk away. Or attempt some method of blocking out their tripe.
Should it be physical... well, you could always get the authorities involved. Fighting back can only get you so far, and even if you manage to beat the living shit out of them, they can always come back in groups, or with weapons.

You want to consider counselling if you've been driven to attempted suicide. Keeping everything up inside is only going to result in you attempting again. Lord forbid you'd succeed the next time.
 
The Guv'na said:
Standing up to bullies usually results in an ass-kicking, but they'll still beat you up if you don't stand up to them. A person's only got one choice, stand up to the bully, take the beatdown, then keep standing up to him/her, when they realize you're not afraid of them, they might go pick on someone else who would be intimidated by them. FYI, that ''Tell the teacher'' garbage doesn't work, it only pisses them off.
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"Tell the teacher"? How about "civil lawsuit", and a little thing called "assault"? I'm not the least bit afraid of bullies because I know that I will be getting every penny's worth of any harm they commit back if they even lay a finger on me.

Bulling does not pay in this modern age, period.
 
Aztec Triogal said:
LMAO! God I would so rant but Saix would end up giving me another "that's not mod behavior" speech. Soooo weak. That's all I have to say. Seriously, I was never the cool kid. I always talked shit to the bullies. And I always got away with things no one else could have. Just grow a pair and don't let them bother you. I don't even understand how this is so hard.
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Lol. Oh it's hard alright......My 6th grade bully was named Joe Varga, (You look just like him, minus his glasses!) Joe headbutted me, and I was like ''Damn that hurted......'' and he didn't feel a thing! What's worse is that he wasn't your typical meatheaded bully, this guy was as intelligent as he was strong. A truly fearsome individual.....but if I met him now.......*Accidentally punches Aztec, because he looks exactly like Joe Varga*
 
I dont' wear glasses. And for some reason people are naturally scared of me even though I'm about as tough as a peep. I do talk big though. Not in the "I'm gonna kick your ass, you crosseyed piece of shit" but more in a witty, comical, "you're attempt to hurt me is laughable".
 
I still can't get over the fact that you look just like the bully that used to torment me in sixth grade. That is totally one strange coincidence. :O
 
When I was a little girl I bullied all the kids in my neighborhood. :D

But yeah there is always going to be bullies out there. Just stand up to them and don't give them the satisfaction that they are getting to you.

 
Bullying is hard to overcome. I was bullied at school for years. It was little things like being stabbed in the back with a compass point during class. Being tripped up in the hallway. Spitting into my lunchbox. Stealing my notes and burning them. leaving little notes in my locker with 'bitch' and 'slag' and 'maggot' written on them.
I took it, I ignored it in the hope that she would get fed up without a reaction and leave me alone. She didn't. Finally one day I snapped and when she pushed me in the hallway between classes I swung round and stood eye to eye and said "You want to fight? Fine. After school in the forecourt." and stormed off. She did meet me after school, along with 10 of her best bullying mates. I was alone. They formed a ring around us and she came at me kicking, biting and scratching. I did not fight back right then. After a minute or two she stepped back puzzled. "My turn now." I said and threw one punch. She went down like a sack of spuds, unconscious. I walked away, her 'friends' didn't touch me. She never bullied me again.
 
i have tried many differnent ways to stand up to bullying i had tried violence which only encouraged them
telling the teacher which only got them pissed
tried killing them on many occasions which kept them off my back temporarily
tried counselling which did not work
tried suicide which only gave them more 'fire'
tried missing school which had no effect
tried letting them kill me which just left me as a joke

once i was in my new school i was free to make my own personality (basically changing the way i thought and felt and acted) after that i signed up for the gym and tennis and i gained confidence because i was with people who understood me and dreaded the first week home but when i did the confidence i had gained just made me go up to one of them and say "you have tormented me for years its payback time in the cage now!" after we were in the cage he brought 10 of his friends who joined in the fight which at first i was worried about losing but then i thought "what was the worst they could do kill me? they havent managed all the other years" so i grabbed a strong stick just in case i needed it and just ran at them and started punching the main guy and just beat him senseless and then there were ten left and they just ran at me so i jumped (i was the best in my year at high jump) over them and jabbed them with the sharp end of the stick and started tripping them up with my legs and then i started strangling them until they passed out and then i aid to them as they lay there "that is my revenge tell your friends that i am no longer the victim" and i have not been bothered since

probably not the best way to deal with the problem and i would not reccomend it but since that day they have left me alone
 
I havent really been bullied, but when some immature prick tried to back when i was still young, i just acted all cool... as in not scared... like when he'd say things about me ll I'd say "Great, you must feel pretty cool to say that.." or something along those lines, laugh then walk away... it shows that bullying me is futile.
 
Ambiguity said:
"Tell the teacher"? How about "civil lawsuit", and a little thing called "assault"? I'm not the least bit afraid of bullies because I know that I will be getting every penny's worth of any harm they commit back if they even lay a finger on me.

Bulling does not pay in this modern age, period.
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Yeah, threaten to sue, that'll get em:giggle: You've obviously never been in anything remotely close to a physical encounter, or know how lawsuits work.

i have tried many differnent ways to stand up to bullying i had tried violence which only encouraged them
telling the teacher which only got them pissed
tried killing them on many occasions which kept them off my back temporarily
tried counselling which did not work
tried suicide which only gave them more 'fire'
tried missing school which had no effect
tried letting them kill me which just left me as a joke
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...okay, this story can't be completely true, sorry. This seems like a cry for attention. My brother is 13, and he would not consider about 4/5ths of the things on this fucked up 'list' even remotely rational. And nobody can fail suicide 5 separate times.

And that cage story is ridiculous.

Seriously, stop talking about killing yourself, or I'll make sure that someone is notified. I've read about countless cases of kids hinting towards suicide on a forum, then doing it as everyone joked around. Word gets out, the forum gets tons of negative attention, and the members look like shit.
 
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