Do you believe in life after love?

Do you believe in life after love?


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I can't say that Cher is my favourite artist, but to actually answer the question at hand; I'm somewhat torn in between. Ironically I'm going through this now. Of course there is literally life after love (unless you opt for the other way out), but right now I feel that my life is effectively over. I can't see much of a future, or at least compared to what I've just lost.
But thinking realistically, "there's plenty more fish in the sea." I know it's stupid to think that I'll never have such a great thing again, and that I'm the first one this has happened to.
 
Havent heard that song but i do NOT like Cher, thus why i try to hear as little of her stuff as possible xD

As for life after love, of course there's life after love...but life is rather unpleasant and meaningless (IMO, anyway) without it.
 
Not a Cher fan either and I intend to keep it that way.

But on a serious note hell yes there's "life after love". Plenty of life, and you're not too shackled down any longer to enjoy the rest of its aspects. Call me cynical, but I prefer to see love as a ball and chain towards this end.
 
Haha, a ball and chain? You must not have had very pleasant relationships then.

The way i am, i view ALOT of things in life and current society as utterly pointless. And having someone i'm in love with, someone to genuinely care for, actually gives me something i find worthwhile and meaningful.
 
Oh.... ._. I kinda like that song. I don't like Cher though.

Do you believe life after love? I guess so..... *_*
 
Haha I've had my share of good and bad. But the funny part is that when they've all ended yeah, with some I grieved for the ending of it but a large part of me also felt a weight off my shoulders. I just hate how it always degenerates into a bartering system for you to enjoy things you're passionate about that the other might not really share an interest in. "Fine, you can go off and do this, but only if you do this other thing for me later." And I see it happen in every couple. Even the ones that I would consider to be very healthy and good relationships. They're still trying to "barter" their way into getting the other to tolerate them partaking of certain hobbies when really you ought to just be able to go out and do these things, and the one you're with ought to just accept the person they're with just the way they are. You should still be able to actively pursue all of your interests, your mate should be supportive of them even if uninterested herself (or himself depending on your gender or tastes), and you should indulge your mates' own interests as well from time to time because it works both ways and that's something that defines them too. I mean sure, I can understand if someone seems to be spending more time on their hobby and are practically ignoring the one they love, but I see a lot of "Jesus, I hate how he or she does this or watches that and I've been trying to break him of it but he keeps on doing it!"

EDIT - Oh God and don't even get me started on cell phones. Now there's a ball and chain in a true and physically tangible form. If you're in a relationship and you've got a cell phone then god help you. Might as well disperse with the formality of holding that thing to your ear and just get it surgically grafted on because you will not be allowed to put that thing down. And the texts...oh god the text messages. "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hi!" "Hey!" "Hey!" "Hey!" "Hey!" "Still there?" "Still there?" "Still there?" "What are you doing now?" "How about now?" "You didn't answer my last one, are you mad?" Yeah I left out the real shitty misspellings and "txt" speak but I can only tolerate so many aspects of the annoying concept of text messages. I hope the guy who came up with the whole thing has a real special place in hell reserved just for him.

But now look at me, I'm just ranting. There is a very good, excellent reason as to why I remain single haha.
 
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