When given the choice I prefer playing as a male. I have to really dislike the male designs on offer to be swayed into playing female. Currently I'm a female on FFXIV because I strongly disliked the male designs other than the cat guys who were far too short, so I decided to pick the highlander female and made her 6'2". I do like playing as females but I don't like having to suspend my disbelief when so called strong female leads punch their way through scores of fully grown men in an otherwise plausible scenario simply because developers are being coerced by certain types into creating this self indulgent nonsense to appease them. That's not to say I demand my male characters brutish and my females seductive, but it would be nice to play as characters who don't feel as though they've been designed with an agenda in mind and these days I do find myself preferring to play as the stereotypical brute males and oversexed females because it's refreshing to get away from the pandering.