Cloud8
Blue Mage
sorry if i disrespect you man but i have hard time believing you because most hot girls and hot women want hot jerks with huge muscles who never care about her unless they have proof to proof me wrong
Is this a good way to test her when and if i put myself out there and I'm looking for a gamer girl
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sorry if i disrespect you man but i have hard time believing you because most hot girls and hot women want hot jerks with huge muscles who never care about her unless they have proof to proof me wrong
The world don't run on love, cloud8, it is earned through subtle actions and your gestures of respect. I don't expect you to believe me, I'm just saying it bluntly. You have to walk the walk, and by that, muster enough balls to talk to her. Fuck the muscle bound cocksuckers around you, getting her respect and acknowledgement is enough compared to getting her body and no soul.
Cloud8
Blue Mage
lol no offense dude but i bet you she probably had sex with some other guy before you 2 met and she probably is not a virgin and didn't save her virginity for you lol
Cloud8
Blue Mage
I'm just joking with you man and I'm saving my virginity till marriage and i expect her to do the same man and yes it's a part of what i believe in and i think in my heart it's the right thing to do
.You should realize that its perfectly fine and logical to save that shit for marriage. In times like these, I highly doubt you can save that for marriages and I find it logical that the outcome might result in having a premarital experience.
This may not be my place to ask, but since it's already been kind of brought up I did need to ask something about the first post: why does she needs to be a virgin gamer girl? Why can't she be a gamer who's lost her virginity. Just curious.
But I'm with everyone else: don't test her. I would be really pissed If a guy started testing me or questioning everything I said to see if I was lying to him. I would likely dump his ass. If someone honestly can't trust any word that I say then there's no point in a relationship or friendship. Just sayin'.
But I'm with everyone else: don't test her. I would be really pissed If a guy started testing me or questioning everything I said to see if I was lying to him. I would likely dump his ass. If someone honestly can't trust any word that I say then there's no point in a relationship or friendship. Just sayin'.
MagicMasher
.....Masher of Magic?
First, it's a bit disrespectful to sit there and dog on Izanagi's experience and say that he's wrong or you need proof. 
Just because, in your experience, it has never happened and you have a preconceived notion as to what "hot" girls want does not mean it didn't happen to him. It's even more disrespectful to imply that his girl has had a bunch of sex before him. Not that it matters, but still.
Anyway, I think the reason he wants a virgin gamer girl, @PhoenyxAngel, is because he is saving himself for marriage and he thinks that is the right thing to do. Thus, a girl has to be like that, too. Since he seems to adamant on "no sex before marriage", I doubt a girl who isn't a virgin would be around for very long.
@Cloud8, you're asking for a VERY specific type of girl. Not that she isn't out there, but it is probably going to make it hard for you to date around and find that one girl. I agree with the other posters - don't test her. Just because she doesn't sit there and, on the first date, list off every single video game she likes doesn't mean she is lying to you. Heck, I doubt it would even go through her mind that by you asking "what video games do you like?" means listing off specific games. If ANYTHING I would ask her what genre she likes and go from there.
And for the love of God, if you ask her to play RE5 or Left 4 Dead with you and she says she doesn't like those kinds of games, DO NOT sit there and accuse of her lying or being dishonest. That is a sure-fire way of ruining any chance you have with her. She may be a gamer, she just, as many people have already said, has different tastes and didn't feel the need to explain every damn game she likes.
Just because, in your experience, it has never happened and you have a preconceived notion as to what "hot" girls want does not mean it didn't happen to him. It's even more disrespectful to imply that his girl has had a bunch of sex before him. Not that it matters, but still.Anyway, I think the reason he wants a virgin gamer girl, @PhoenyxAngel, is because he is saving himself for marriage and he thinks that is the right thing to do. Thus, a girl has to be like that, too. Since he seems to adamant on "no sex before marriage", I doubt a girl who isn't a virgin would be around for very long.
@Cloud8, you're asking for a VERY specific type of girl. Not that she isn't out there, but it is probably going to make it hard for you to date around and find that one girl. I agree with the other posters - don't test her. Just because she doesn't sit there and, on the first date, list off every single video game she likes doesn't mean she is lying to you. Heck, I doubt it would even go through her mind that by you asking "what video games do you like?" means listing off specific games. If ANYTHING I would ask her what genre she likes and go from there.
And for the love of God, if you ask her to play RE5 or Left 4 Dead with you and she says she doesn't like those kinds of games, DO NOT sit there and accuse of her lying or being dishonest. That is a sure-fire way of ruining any chance you have with her. She may be a gamer, she just, as many people have already said, has different tastes and didn't feel the need to explain every damn game she likes.
Ah, I missed the post where he said that. Thank you for pointing that out to me. I was hasty in posting my response.
I have no problem with the idea of wanting your partner to be wanting to save him/her self for marriage as well. Whatever floats your boat Cloud8. But I agree with MagicMasher that you're being very specific and a girl like that is going to be a little hard to find.
Hliðskjálf
Black To The Blind
I guess it would be best to just be out front and ask her what games she likes, if she actually even likes games, etc. ... The true test is to see if she's willing to go with you to Gamestop. Also, if she not only picks a game to buy, but pays for it with her own money, that's definitely a keeper. That's every gamer dudes dream right there. There's no need for a quiz or a FBI interrogation sequence. Just something simple like the Gamestop thing could go a long way in telling what she's into. Then again, what do I know? I'm 15. 
That was quite a funny read 
your mad
your mad
Personally, I wouldn't test or quiz a girl on what she likes. As I'm a girl myself, if a guy were to quiz me on what particular games I liked it would make me rather skeptical of him. Why can't he just flat out ask me if I like to play video games and then ask me what sort of games I like to play? In fact the guy I'm chatting with now was very upfront about wanting to know my general interests. I'd encourage you to go this route--just be straightforward and ballsy. Ask her what she's into, ask her if she knows about anime and manga. If she's like, "no" and doesn't seem knowledgeable on the topic then you can see if she'd be open to trying it. The idea here is to coax her into telling you what she's into--what sort of video games, anime, manga, etc. What are her interests? Then go into types of games she likes to play. Chances are that most people have a particular preference or genre they're into. To be honest with you, not everyone will like everything you're into and that's fine. You should get used to that and tolerate it. Chances are she that even if she's into video games and anime/manga she may not be into every single genre of those things you're into. And that's fine.
You can introduce her to some of your favorite types of games and sit down and play with her. But testing is a huge no no. You want to gain her trust not rip it up into shreds. Testing her, like someone here said earlier, only reveals something about your views on honesty. As for the virginity thing, I respect it, it's a really rare thing to find a girl who would fit your criteria though. Those are very specific criteria to want but I respect it, as I said. It's not impossible to find a virgin gamer girl but it might not be exactly easy ha ha. Anyway I'll wish you luck on your endeavors man. Take it easy and I hope this bit of advice helps.
You can introduce her to some of your favorite types of games and sit down and play with her. But testing is a huge no no. You want to gain her trust not rip it up into shreds. Testing her, like someone here said earlier, only reveals something about your views on honesty. As for the virginity thing, I respect it, it's a really rare thing to find a girl who would fit your criteria though. Those are very specific criteria to want but I respect it, as I said. It's not impossible to find a virgin gamer girl but it might not be exactly easy ha ha. Anyway I'll wish you luck on your endeavors man. Take it easy and I hope this bit of advice helps.
I guess it would be best to just be out front and ask her what games she likes, if she actually even likes games, etc. ... The true test is to see if she's willing to go with you to Gamestop. Also, if she not only picks a game to buy, but pays for it with her own money, that's definitely a keeper. That's every gamer dudes dream right there. There's no need for a quiz or a FBI interrogation sequence. Just something simple like the Gamestop thing could go a long way in telling what she's into. Then again, what do I know? I'm 15.
Haha awesome response!
It is subtle and there is less effort involved. XD
If she's able to hang out with you in a game shop without complaining that's usually a good sign, though some girls who like a guy and are prepared to go to extreme's would think this an easy task.
XDI know I used to be all ladeda with whatever Steve liked or wanted to do, now I just tell him straight up whether or not I do or don't like something. >.<
My fiance hates going into GAME with me. 
Well, except for the rare occasions there's a new Wii game she wants to buy. I actually get a few moment's peace to browse the Xbox aisle then. 
Cloud8 If yer still looking, you should ask the following questions.
So tell me abit about yourself... Do you like video games?
When did you start gaming? What was the first game you ever played?
How does it feel like living a gamer lifestyle?
How many hours a day do you play video games?
What is your favourite video game of all time?
...Anything else you would like to add?
This will make it apparent whether or not this is the one for you.
Well, except for the rare occasions there's a new Wii game she wants to buy. I actually get a few moment's peace to browse the Xbox aisle then. Cloud8 If yer still looking, you should ask the following questions.
So tell me abit about yourself... Do you like video games?
When did you start gaming? What was the first game you ever played?
How does it feel like living a gamer lifestyle?
How many hours a day do you play video games?
What is your favourite video game of all time?
...Anything else you would like to add?
This will make it apparent whether or not this is the one for you.
My last post was pretty vague. Im not really sure if your actually being serious or not but giving someone tests? Things dont work like that with a partner. Theyre not some test subject required to fill in applications just to date you. The idea of putting someone through crazy tests all so you can find out what games they like and to ensure theyre the same as what you like is completely stupid and quite rude imo. I mean if you actually get a girl to like you do you really think shes just gunna sit there and listen to you fire questions at her to see if she passes??? To ensure she's a virgin are you gunna inspect her yourself? Take her to a doctor to confirm it?
You should really forget about all these picky little details you have. Sure having a girlfriend who likes gaming makes things MUCH easier but if you love someone and they love you they're gunna respect that you have hobbies like gaming. Because everyone has something they enjoy doing. You might not like having to go shopping with her but its not a big deal? Im gunna guess this is your first girlfriend that your looking for?
If shes a lovely person with a nice personality and a cracking set of boobs
D) then just go for it man. Dont throw away a chance at happiness because she prefers Squall over Cloud or Tifa over Aeris.
You'v probably left the forum and dont visit anymore. But just in case you do. Goodluck pal.
You should really forget about all these picky little details you have. Sure having a girlfriend who likes gaming makes things MUCH easier but if you love someone and they love you they're gunna respect that you have hobbies like gaming. Because everyone has something they enjoy doing. You might not like having to go shopping with her but its not a big deal? Im gunna guess this is your first girlfriend that your looking for?
If shes a lovely person with a nice personality and a cracking set of boobs
D) then just go for it man. Dont throw away a chance at happiness because she prefers Squall over Cloud or Tifa over Aeris.You'v probably left the forum and dont visit anymore. But just in case you do. Goodluck pal.
Thats loser defeatist talk and completely not true AT ALL. The proof to ''proof'' you wrong is everywhere. Your essentially calling all woman shallow and labelling men who have worked hard to get a nice body as arse-holes. I can very much see why you are single, your attitude kinda stinks and your view of the world is not very accurate. You sound bitter.
Its normal to want a partner who is good looking. You can lie and try to fool people into thinking you only care about personality but its fact that the good looking girl always catches your eye first. I couldnt date someone who doesnt interest me mentally or doesnt make me smile, and I also couldnt date a girl i find ugly. Its not shallow either to want someone attractive.
lol no offense dude but i bet you she probably had sex with some other guy before you 2 met and she probably is not a virgin and didn't save her virginity for you lol
Again with your attitude. Its kinda hard to save virginity for someone you dont know but assume your gunna meet in the future at some unknown year and time. There arent many people over 18 who are virgins. Expecting a woman or a man to be a virgin when you meet them is uhhh its a stretch. You kinda make it sound like a bad thing for someone not to be a virgin. Its quite a prudish view of life and people. Sex like many other things in life is one of the most normal, natural and enjoyable things we humans like to do.
Man, if you have to test a potential romantic interest to check... I don't fucking know.
I'd love to rant about how you shouldn't test people, yada yada yada but really...
Would YOU like someone putting you through tests to see if your interests are "Suitable"? I highly doubt it.
I mean... She'd be a human being, not a check list to suit your interests... You'd need so give 'n' take man...
Plus, discovering new interests-while appreciating the older - is one of the fun aspects of a relationship!
I'd love to rant about how you shouldn't test people, yada yada yada but really...
Would YOU like someone putting you through tests to see if your interests are "Suitable"? I highly doubt it.
I mean... She'd be a human being, not a check list to suit your interests... You'd need so give 'n' take man...
Plus, discovering new interests-while appreciating the older - is one of the fun aspects of a relationship!
Twilight Sky
Blue Mage
This situation is a year old..
I've been tested before, so I know what it feels like to be on that side of the fence.
If you feel you to have to test them, you're not right for them.
I've been tested before, so I know what it feels like to be on that side of the fence.
If you feel you to have to test them, you're not right for them.