Love? I'm confused

It's funny, because half of the time when I'm having sex, I'm thinking about science. =\
 
Rhea said:
It's funny, because half of the time when I'm having sex, I'm thinking about science. =\
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Do you let the other guy know that Einstein is turning you on more than he your lover is? That'd be interesting...

I say that "love is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another person." It exists. Those who are saying it doesn't exist I can certainly bet top dollar that you are either in high school or below. I'm osrry but until possibly late years of high school, early college, or even later, you won't recognize what love it.

Love is not picking out the hottest girl in your class and staring at her ass when she bends over to pick up her backpack. Love is not moving from girl to girl week after week and getting all melancholy and depressed when the girl you've known for 1 week is dumping you.

Love grows as time goes.

Those of you who are saying love doesn't exist, are right in some ways; in your own ways. It doesn't exist in your world yet because you're not ready for it. It does exist however in the lives of those who have spent the time, gotten familiar, and felt the passionate connection, desire, and bond with the one they feel they could spend the rest of their life with beyond a doubt. IMO, you can't FULLY know love until you've matured in your ways to handle love.
 
well IMO love CAN be ugly, like u HATE it like when Ur turned down :'( i HATE THE WORD "LOVE" its got so many definitions u can even count............having "Sex" doesn't always mean Ur in love.. sad 2 say but true becuzz when ppl do dumb shit then the next thing u kno ur getting Rapid thats sucks Balls!! lol:P but anywazz ppl will catch an evil spell on u lol:P
 
Dont worry about love, you know when you love.

and besides love doesnt exist only the word does :P kiddding!

Atleast u got the idea that love and lust are different things thats a good start!
 
Love is built on a foundation of trust...
If you can't trust someone, you can't really be in love with them.
And you can't trust someone that you just met one week ago.

Actually, you could go through your entire life married to the same person, and you'll never really know them.
 
Thanks to all who have posted so far. Your insights have really helped me to really figure out what love is for myself.

12 years. That's how long I've known him. Once again, I can't say I'm in love with him until i know for sure what love is. He knows who he is. Some of you may know as well. Yes, he's a member of FFF. There was a huge discussion in the FFF claims about people falling for other FFF members. I just happen to be one of them.

All I know is that this feels different. It's indescribable. He makes me laugh, cry, and punch the wall at times. He made me feel better after that cat ran out in front of me when I was driving. (Sorry, cat lovers. IT WAS NOT MY FAULT!!!) He's helped me out on Final Fantasy SOOO many times. He's actually the one who introduced me TO FF. However, what I'm afraid of is to admit it. Since we've been friends for 12 years, I'm afraid a relationship might ruin it all. I just know that I want something to happen. He may know how I feel, then again, he may not, I have no clue. He's hard to read. And no, Moonchild, I do NOT want to have sex with him. I do know that MY definition of love does not include constant love-making, because that's not how I am. I feel that I'm getting closer to my definition, it'll just take a while.
 
Guess it's easier to tell you to do it than actually do it.
But how are you gonna know if you don't try?

I remember telling this girl I liked straight out that I liked her, she turned me down, hurt like hell. Still, it was worth it, just to know if it could be..
 
Oh,well...I'm in love with someone too and we really have a great time together.But I can't believe yet that it'll last too long.
 
I remember telling this girl I liked straight out that I liked her, she turned me down, hurt like hell. Still, it was worth it, just to know if it could be..
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like my sig says
 
Silariaz said:
Guess it's easier to tell you to do it than actually do it.
But how are you gonna know if you don't try?

I remember telling this girl I liked straight out that I liked her, she turned me down, hurt like hell. Still, it was worth it, just to know if it could be..
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Once again, you'e not the only one who's told me that. I have actually tried once before, but I was way too immature and acted stupid. Things got kind of awkward between us for a year or two. But our firendship is just like it used to be, except for my feelings, of course.
 
To me love is the greatest feeling in the world and yet the most painful. I dont really know what defines love, I guess its being hurt when you arent around them, cherish the time you spend with them and want to be with them all the time.

I dont know if that is love, but thats how Ive felt in the last 2 relationships and the last one lasted for 3 years and we lived togther. Ive only been with my new guy a month and a half and Im having the same feelings for him as I had for my ex.
 
I wouldn't know what love felt in the sense of relationships, never been in one myself. Love between family, I know how that feels like.

:/
 
Everyone knows what love for the family feels like. People are born with that sense. Love for another, non-related person is something you have to find for yourself.
 
I don't believe in love. It's just a rush of hormones that should be controlled.

Not that I'm saying no one else can fall in love. I'm sure for others, the experience is wonderful. I've heard love described as being kicked in the face--in a pleasant way--whenever you see this particular person. If that is how you feel whenever you see this person, then it could quite possibly be love.
 
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