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Are you a good neighbour?

Do you have shitty neighbours?

Have you ever spoken to your neighours?

I was just thinking today how sad it is that my parents rarely talk to their neighbours and one in particular they never speak to.

Years ago when my sister was little, she and the little girl next door were playing and then one of them started crying and then her mum and my mum started arguing over who's little shit of a kid started it etc etc. So after that there was no more communication with them and they built a tall wooden fence to kind of block us out. It used to be a short chicken wire see through fence.

Anyway, today the father of the girl (who is now 18) came over to say that they would be having a party for her 18th and that there would be a DJ etc and so he was just letting us know that there might be a bit of noise.

He seemed really nice and I thought it was sad that after nearly 16 years they still haven't spoken.

I would like to get to know my neighbours and have them as friends to have BBQ's with and know that if we went on holidays they would watch our house and possibly our pets.
I refuse to be a cold stubborn hermit and never speak to my neighbours.

I do get some people like their privacy and want to just keep to themselves but that's just not me. >.<

This is assuming that my future neighbours are not Derro's and I would actually want to hang around with them.

What about you?
 
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when i was small i used to get babysat every now and then by my neighbours, just for a few hours, probably when my mum wanted me out of the way. i rememebr they had a big snake teddy that i loved in the front room.

i haven't talked to any of my neighbours since we moved to manchester. the couple that live in the flat below us argue like mad all the time, i'm pretty sure there's going to be a murder down there one day soon. they also have quite loud sex occasionally, but it tends to be arguing more than that
 
my neighbours on the right side party every Tuesday night until like 5am which drives me nuts because I have work and get up at 5:30am

my neighbours behind me sit on their roof and try to peer into my kitchen lmfao

the neighbours on the left grow weed and you can smell it.

I think compared to my neighbours I am pretty good. Sometimes my family is loud though so that might be annoying but it cant be any more annoying than weed-growing, partying, perverts.
 
When I was at my old townhouse with Steve we had a bunch of Derro's living in the house next to our block of townhouses and they used to ALWAYS fight and light fires.

The guy would go nuts at the woman and then start pretending to burn down the house, so once or twice we had to call the police but they never came for some reason.
Luckily the guy came to his senses and realised he would be burning his shit too if he went ahead with it.

We were living in a shitty area at the time so the cops were probably dealing with more important emergencies. :hmmm:
 
Our neighbors can fuck off. I hate them soooooo much. Being around them just makes me want to live in the woods by myself even more.

Anyway, the people on top of us have kids that stomp and run around at weird times of the night while we're asleep not to mention from when they come home until 8 pm they also run around.

Then we have the lady next to us that screams at her kids all day. She just doesn't stop.

Then in the other building we have the guy that's always staring at us when we go outside.

Ugh...... I don't like people. :hmmm:
 
Neighbours are human. Sometimes you get good ones, sometimes bad ones. I can't badmouth anyone, never knew 'em. If I got into a fight with a neighbour, do I really know 'em to the point where I can judge them? Opinions of each other is mandatory in society, but negative outlooks only damages the overall togetherness of what community should stand for. I've made mistakes, and could have been viewed as a bad neighbour, so, just get past the bad, look at the good.
 
My neighbour is just waiting on the grim reaper to come every night.
I do play my music loud and my instruments loud but im definitely respectful.
Im kinda used to noise so if someone does move iinto her house who likes a party im not too bothered. I used to live in the town centre so you could hear all the drunks and music from the clubs all night anyway. The worst thing though is the seagulls. They keep you awake -___-
 
we're lucky with our neighbours. the ones immediately either side of us anyway, dunno about the rest. One was an old lady, who has since died (RIP Olga ): ) and the other side are just a nice normal family. I'm dreading someone moving in next door and being arseholes as we've been really lucky so far. Olga didn't have a car either, so there was space to park, if someone moves in with a car, it's going to be a tight squeeze. though its not our place to move, next door have two cars (though im sure they wouldn't mind scooting back a little bit and blocking their own drive) and next door but one have a car on their drive, plus a van which is partially infront of Olgas house, so its up to them to move really, I just know its going to be OUR space moved in on as its there. So that car is staying there while we assert our spot :lew: I think, as neighbours ourselves, we are abit loud, tom turns the tv right up, and its on the wall as well, so I do wonder if all they can hear is our tv sometimes, I have it at a lower volume, but tom likes to think he is in the cinema. Im sure of it.
 
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