Secret Crush

Yeah, I know what i have for my gf is love even if she doesnt treat me the same way, It looks like I am falling deeper and deeper into a hole again *sighs* why dont I get any luck with girls.
 
Jimmy D said:
But still love can be felt when ur thier age. You dont have to know the conspet of love too feel its presence and its warmth.
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Love cant be felt at like young ages IMO. Its just a crush, not love. They dont have enough experince in the real world to know what the hell it is. Mainly its hormones running around and causing havoc.
And that boys and girls is lust, not love. Ive experinced lust and I believed it to be love. But I had a wake up call when the realtionship was over.

Then I did experince the horrors of love and lets just say it hurts like a nasty bitch when it goes wrong. In a way, it was like someone was dragging a dagger very, very slowly through my heart.

Love is the greatest feeling the world and the worst.
 
Love isn't determined by experience through life. Although love in itself has become fabricated, the feeling is still the same from when you're either 14 or 34.


Love is love. Crush is a crush. Some people do confuse the two, yes, but it's a bit ignorant to say no one in their early to mid teens can comprehend the concept of love.
 
I just dont see how someone so young can know what a feeling is that young.

How can they express its love? By spending every waking moment possible with them? Not possible. Making love to show they love them? Again not possible.

The word love is thrown around alot nowadays and I dont think Im being ignorant when its my opinion. If they claim they feel love, let them, but I chose not to believe them.
 
I Agree with that statement, Love is indeed the best and the worst feeling, I came out of a 11 Month Relationship and was broken, it was getting to the point of planning for the future and she just turned around and basicaly said to me Oh I never loved you I just went along with it.

Well I thought what I felt for her was love but it wasnt, I made myself think I was in love, I wanted to be loved, I was going through a very lonely stage of my life, My mum had just had her heart attack and I was getting depressed at home and my 'friends' where leaving me cause I was turning into a Goth.

Now I am just myself and I am in a Relationship which feels nothing like any I have been in before, Its not a rebound thing as I have already had my Rebound stage, I Can truly say This is Love, even if she doesnt treat me right, but I should sort that out on sunday.
 
~SapphireStar~ said:
I just dont see how someone so young can know what a feeling is that young.
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They don't have to understand it in order to feel it. Some claim it, but that doesn't mean they all do.

~SapphireStar~ said:
How can they express its love? By spending every waking moment possible with them? Not possible. Making love to show they love them? Again not possible.
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Not vital, either. Expressing love can come in the most vague way, and isn't restricted to the act of sex or spending every given moment with them.

~SapphireStar~ said:
The word love is thrown around alot nowadays and I dont think Im being ignorant when its my opinion. If they claim they feel love, let them, but I chose not to believe them.
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If it's your opinion, then fair enough, but you have to accommodate the fact that not all youths lie about it.
 
I noticed that after my initial response to you. :(


Doesn't make it any less of a discussion though. Albeit a misplaced one...
 
Nah, this talk of love can drag up some horrible crappy memories.
Love sucks sometimes. Well, depends on the person you get I guess.
 
I guess, even though this was getting serious, then suddenly bam. Then lets just hope the next thread doesnt turn out like this.
 
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