SELF CENTERED AMERICAN COMPLAINTS...A RANT

Ja, it wasn't obvious because you were complaining that they were being selfish and spoiled rather than saying they should get off their lazy asses. Because you can be selfish and still do something about your own situation; you'd still be selfish if you didn't either. Not choosing to do something when you can is laziness, not necessarily selfishness.

Well the interpretation is that they should get off of their lazy asses. At least if they are going to be lazy and selfish...dont complain about it.

And actually, laziness, like selfishness is also useless. Just imagine what we'd be doing without computers decades ago. But because we're lazy to some degree, we'd rather have the computer organize all our paperwork instead. But that's probably a different discussion for a different thread, so that's all I'll say on it.

I would post into that thread if you created it



I understand what you're complaining about, and again, this is where we differ. You seem to care about the people making only complaints about their own country and not caring about other people's countries, and I only care about the complaints themselves. I don't really care who makes the complaints.

Ah but I do care about the complaints themselves, and honestly most Americans wear their opinions on there sleeves so it seems to go hand in hand. Not all of them, but most of them.



Again, how do you distinguish between people who are necessarily selfish because they have no choice, and people who are selfish because they can? Is it just the people who are too lazy to do anything about their own situation that you have a problem with, or people who happen to be both selfish and ignorant (I'll address that in a moment), and have the means to help people other than themselves? I just think using the term selfish is too general and doesn't get your point across.

Well in general you have to use better judgement to determine which people are which and I guess you just use your eyes and your brain. Also I will crarify some things later.

Personally, I just choose not to involve myself in other people's affairs because how they spend their personal wealth is none of my business. Besides, there are quite a few rich people who have charities and donate money to people in underdeveloped countries.

That may be true but honestly there is a significantly MORE rich people who has the only goal of growing more powerful or taking more money for themselves, and honestly those people still complain just like lower wealth people. I dont invole myself in their affairs either I am just mentioning it.



Well, if it helps clear up some of the points you were trying to make, I'm happy for you.





I'm actually not too bothered by people who are ignorant because ignorance can be cured; you can inform someone of something, and they'll be less ignorant of certain issues. Actually, we're never fully cured of ignorance though; we are only cured of ignorance of particular matters, but in the grand scheme of things, we're still pretty ignorant. There's lots of stuff we don't know, and stuff we'll probably never know.
It would actually be a problem though if you were willfully ignorant or possibly arrogant because then being informed about something doesn't affect what you're willing to consider.
However, I don't think lots of people would be ignorant about the underdeveloped countries on this planet. We might not have been to China or India or Africa, but we know enough about them to know they don't have it as nice as we do here. So I don't think they're self centered because they're ignorant of poor countries. They're probably just complaining because they can.

Yes I see your point. Yet even though they wont complain for the sake of less fortunate countries don't you think that maybe they should more often? Like I said this was more or less a rant and honestly even if they know enough about those countries..they will never realize or feel the impact of the difference until they experience it. I say this from personal experience as I started to get older and see more. I always knew there was more unfortunate countries and povery around the world, and I just assumed my country has poverty so its the same thing. Yet after seeing it I realized that it is not the same thing and in general it is very different from the commonwealth in America. Honestly I truely think that there is a lot more poverty in America due to poor decisions than there some of the other third world countries. And this is the concept I am trying push at, that even though we have a lot of opportunitys we have a lot of idiots who feel sorry for themselves and think they have it so bad. To clarify I am saying that I believe there are more spoiled people in America than most other countries



I think all countries that are now developed existed in some state before in which it was not favorable for people. I mean, look at places in Europe and America from before. There was no gender equality, there were black slaves in the States, and religion basically took control of governments in Europe for some time. They tortured the wrong people, they discriminated against Jews and others, and it was just crap living in Nazi Germany. Now Germany and most parts of Europe are nice places to live in, as are the States and Canada. They weren't that way before though. People had to fight tooth and nail to get those rights and freedoms that we value so much now. So poverty and underdeveloped countries or their equivalents don't exist just now, they also exist in history as well. I suppose that's why some people are rather appreciative of living in America, and complaining might just be seen as a means of improving it in the same way I see how America was formed - I think it was a reaction to the repulsive way in which European countries used to treat their citizens.

This is true all countries did have a low point at some point. Yet as our countrys grow stronger sohuld our morality grow weaker? I think that the more powerful america becomes the less independent and free thinking the people will become, and it doesnt have to be like that. America is a place where people are allowed to think for themselves...lets hope more people stop thinking about being greedy.

Again, I happen to think that not all complaints are valid. Some of them don't deserve any attention (creationism in science should be shot down, for example), and others, regardless of if they originally came from someone selfish or ignorant (okay, or even arrogant or spoiled), are important for the country and deserve at least some consideration.

Still like I said before. The more the people complain about oil prices the more we will go to war that involves oil every chance we can. Those complaints do nothing but tempt the goverment of an unrestful people. UNLESS, it pushes the government to do alot more research into an alternate fuel source. Which would be awesome =)


Well, I happen to think we should sort out the problems at home first before bothering to help someone else. If you can't help yourself, you can't help others. If you don't even have enough money to support yourself, you can't be bothered to donate money to people in underdeveloped countries. And some Americans are in that position. I agree it would be nice if people were encouraged to learn more about the world out there, but what they do with their time and money, and what they choose to complain about is ultimately their problem. I don't know why, but I'm just not bothered. Afterall, I can choose to ignore the complaints I find trivial.

Yes but is a country ever going decide that they have sorted out ALL of the problems? Its always going to be a struggle between resources and poverty and the rich throughout the world because the goverment of all countries will look out for their people first (a good thing). Yet in a government like America where people have a lot of freedom of speech and choice than maybe the first step towards change is the people becoming less selfish before the government does.
 
I'm going to agree with the OP that there are a lot of Americans who take things for granted, and are ignorant of how they come to have all the luxuries they do. Even though I'm not "rich," I ended up living with people who live in a very rich area (near to polo millionaires and upper middle class), and so I hear many complaints expressed by the people who live here when I am at work. And for who knows what reason, it seems most of them are extremely ignorant of world issues.

They'll sit there and complain about trivial things as they're buying expensive luxury items from my store, when people in other places (both the U.S. and other countries) are breaking their backs just to put food on the table. And it irritates me, because it sounds like they are being ungrateful. It's understandable that people in different brackets have certain standards of living they've become used to, and so when those standards start falling, they get concerned, even if it's a millionaire saying "Oh crap, I only made $9 million this year instead of $10 million," they're still going to count it as a loss. But it would be nice if standards of living across the globe hadn't turned out so disparate, so that there are super rich and super poor, because even though I do think people should be rewarded for hard work, I don't agree with such huge gaps in financial income and standards of living. And oftentimes, people who have millions of dollars have done unscrupulous things or at least stepped on their employees' toes to make their fortunes. Or have inherited it, but not actually done anything to have earned it.

As far as being able to do something about your own situation, the thing I don't understand is when people (of any income bracket, poor middle or rich) in better-off countries like America complain constantly about the issues in their country, but aren't willing to execute a revolution against the government to try to fix things. It boggles my mind when people sit there and expect the current two-party system we have to be able to fix things exactly how all citizens would want it. One of the biggest complaints that irritated me was when Obama had only been in office a short time, and people had already started complaining that he "hadn't done X or Y yet" as though he's supposed to be able to wave a magic wand and fix all the issues in the snap of a finger :ffs: Whereas if you look at some other countries throughout history, if they don't like something that's going on and really want to change things, the people will organize a revolution and try to overthrow their faulty government and replace it with something of their own design that works better. Rather than just sitting there and complaining but not do anything about it.

I can understand why people in a country like America wouldn't want to take up weapons and start a revolution, because there's a risk of personal injury or death and even if they're poor or have high gas prices, they can still survive throughout the rest of their life under such conditions. But if anything is ever going to change dramatically for the better in the U.S., then it is going to require either a complete overhaul of the current party system, or the people who are already in power to suddenly have an epiphany and start managing resources correctly (and, for the love of all that is good in this world, put a per capita childbirth cap of 2 or less). The real culprits behind all the world's current problems are the people who had too many children throughout history, which fucked over our resource availability, so it's hard to hardcore point fingers at anyone who is alive and walking this earth right now. At this point we're just trying to fix the obscenely ignorant, greedy mistakes of the people who came before us. But there's really nothing civil that can be done about lessening our current population, so people outside the governments are going to have to find some way to interact more with the governments to try to find a way to fix everything; people can't just sit around watching news reports and expect things to get better, even non-violent activism on the part of citizens would at least be something.
 
Well the interpretation is that they should get off of their lazy asses. At least if they are going to be lazy and selfish...dont complain about it.

I only think the laziness part is the problem; at least if I made software that made it easier for other people to do something, I still did something about it. I don't think selfishness is an issue because we all do things for selfish reasons. Selfishness doesn't necessarily have to harm others though. Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn't.

Ah but I do care about the complaints themselves, and honestly most Americans wear their opinions on there sleeves so it seems to go hand in hand. Not all of them, but most of them.

Complaints are universal. Anyone can make them, and they can make them for different reasons. So I never try to assume that only a specific kind of person can make certain complaints. Americans who are selfish because they have no choice can complain about gas prices because they need a car to go to work, and don't make a lot of money. And on the other hand, Americans who can afford the gas for their car and are selfish anyways can make the same complaints. You might not like the fact that they made that complaint, but it's definitely a serious problem for the former if their transit system doesn't go to the place they work at.

Well in general you have to use better judgement to determine which people are which and I guess you just use your eyes and your brain. Also I will crarify some things later.

Which is again why I think selfishness in general is useless.

Yes I see your point. Yet even though they wont complain for the sake of less fortunate countries don't you think that maybe they should more often? Like I said this was more or less a rant and honestly even if they know enough about those countries..they will never realize or feel the impact of the difference until they experience it. I say this from personal experience as I started to get older and see more. I always knew there was more unfortunate countries and povery around the world, and I just assumed my country has poverty so its the same thing. Yet after seeing it I realized that it is not the same thing and in general it is very different from the commonwealth in America. Honestly I truely think that there is a lot more poverty in America due to poor decisions than there some of the other third world countries. And this is the concept I am trying push at, that even though we have a lot of opportunitys we have a lot of idiots who feel sorry for themselves and think they have it so bad. To clarify I am saying that I believe there are more spoiled people in America than most other countries

I don't have any right to decide who gets to complain about what. People can and will complain about what they can see. Maybe they're selfish or ignorant, and maybe they won't complain about certain things because they're arrogant or spoiled, but what's the point in complaining about something because somebody told you to? People make complaints because it affects them personally. Some people don't feel like someone halfway across the world is affecting them, so they don't feel the need to complain about it. If your rant by any chance happens to make some spoiled people open their eyes, then I'm happy for you. But there's probably nothing that can be done about people who are willfully ignorant, or people who don't change their minds anyways because they don't feel like they have to help people they don't know or care about.

This is true all countries did have a low point at some point. Yet as our countrys grow stronger sohuld our morality grow weaker? I think that the more powerful america becomes the less independent and free thinking the people will become, and it doesnt have to be like that. America is a place where people are allowed to think for themselves...lets hope more people stop thinking about being greedy.

Actually, free thought (or in this case, free speech) includes the ability to complain about anything and everything you want. So if you don't want to complain about people from another country, you can choose to do that. And if you want to, you can do it too. And if you want to complain about stupid trivial things like prices, you are free to do so as well. It may not contribute much to an interesting discussion, unless it brings up the topic of why the prices are so high, but free speech means I can make an ass of myself if I choose to. Free speech doesn't protect against stupidity; it just allows stupidity to be made public.

Still like I said before. The more the people complain about oil prices the more we will go to war that involves oil every chance we can. Those complaints do nothing but tempt the goverment of an unrestful people. UNLESS, it pushes the government to do alot more research into an alternate fuel source. Which would be awesome =)

And I hope it does, because if there's anything I've learned from an economics class, science does wonders for the economy, and I would like to see it being used to save the economy of a country that's headed for the shitter because it places too much emphasis on oil. I guess maybe that's one valid reason for complaining about oil prices.

Yes but is a country ever going decide that they have sorted out ALL of the problems? Its always going to be a struggle between resources and poverty and the rich throughout the world because the goverment of all countries will look out for their people first (a good thing). Yet in a government like America where people have a lot of freedom of speech and choice than maybe the first step towards change is the people becoming less selfish before the government does.

Well, America has its own poor people to contend with, and I happen to think some people are prevented from obtaining public education because of where they live or how they've been raised. I also happen to think that people who have been homeschooled are usually stunted in both social growth and their basic knowledge of academic subjects because of things like religious indoctrination. And it's a serious problem, because these illiterate people might be the ones who end up making the complaints you're complaining about. Do you think that with such a shitty education system, we'd be at any position to offer good education to countries who aren't nearly as fortunate to have a better education system? There are other countries which have way better education systems, and I think they'd do a better job of providing education for some of these countries.

I'm not entirely sure how free speech and choice comes into play here; you can't make people choose to do things they don't want to, but then I'm not sure if that's what you're really getting at, and free speech exists so that you can make these rants, and so that I can point out why I think selfishness and laziness are useless and ignorance is only a temporary problem.
 
Well ASTRONOM I think we have met an endpass. You have a lot of good views and it seems we are on the same page just...like you said...for different reasons. I am willing to admit that you are right in the aspect that everyone has the right to complain about what ever they want wether it be trivial, relevant or otherwise utterly useless, and they do. Thats simply what the rant is about really, a complaint for complaints if you will =). Maybe one day the spoiled will realize that they have it well and stop complaining and maybe do something other with their wealth than complain that they don't have enough of it.

And to VALVALIS, I am glad you can understand where I am coming with this and I also agree with what you said about how sitting down watching a government make mistakes on the news is going to get the people nowhere wether they generally agree with whats happening or not. It may afftect future generations in the idea that we learned lessons, but it will do nothing in the short run of things...or rather..''our generation''.

Also : ATHF is a very funny show. The Broodwitch ^^
 
Poverty, and gas prices (heh), are pretty relative things. I've always thought the gas price thing is amusing (and I don't mean this in an insultive way, but rather in an odd hilarious kind of way). I'm not sure what the current running price of gas is here because I like to walk everywhere, but here the gas price comprises of about 80% of tax on top of the price. I'm guessing for every dollar of gas bought in the US, I probably pay two dollars and 50 cents for the same amount.

Also, I don't think people "whining" is really indicative of being greedy or anything like that for the most part. In all honesty, it's a sad sign of the times. You have to buy, consume, and own a lot of useless shit, and above all you have to hate everyone who buys, owns and consumes more than you, and detest those who can't buy, consume and own as well as you. It's not really an american trait like the OP kind of puts it, it's a global thing.

Most of the worlds conflicts, most of the oppression, exploitation, radicalism and violence would be solved if people just owned, and consumed less.
 
Poverty, and gas prices (heh), are pretty relative things. I've always thought the gas price thing is amusing (and I don't mean this in an insultive way, but rather in an odd hilarious kind of way). I'm not sure what the current running price of gas is here because I like to walk everywhere, but here the gas price comprises of about 80% of tax on top of the price. I'm guessing for every dollar of gas bought in the US, I probably pay two dollars and 50 cents for the same amount.

Also, I don't think people "whining" is really indicative of being greedy or anything like that for the most part. In all honesty, it's a sad sign of the times. You have to buy, consume, and own a lot of useless shit, and above all you have to hate everyone who buys, owns and consumes more than you, and detest those who can't buy, consume and own as well as you. It's not really an american trait like the OP kind of puts it, it's a global thing.

Most of the worlds conflicts, most of the oppression, exploitation, radicalism and violence would be solved if people just owned, and consumed less.

I agree with you in the idea the people just need to consume less. It is one of the point I was subtly trying to come across with. We complain a lot AND consume a lot.

And honestly even if we do pay for a large percentage of the oil price at the current time, is it really not worth it? Considering that america exploit those countries whom have oil and that they need to sell this resource (as it is one of the only things of value that they have to sell.) Is it really not worth every dime you are paying for it when peoples lives in other places don't outweight the desire to have the resource. People complaining about the oil prices don't consider these things at all, and thats what I was saying. Gas prices SHOULD be high because it seems to be worthy of war and its the only means other countries have to profit for themselves. Most Americans will only complain that the price is high because of that extra dime coming out of their wallets. Countries like America are flirting with wars for access to it because its abused by necessity, while coutries like China are keeping it in reserve and stocking up on it because they know whats going to happen when we run out of petrol. People could care less to batt an eyelash for those who like in the countries where it comes from and are being exploited for it. Thus brings me to the point of the "Self centered complaint."

There is no absolute price for oil. Its worth is determined by what you CAN pay for it by different groups of people. Its a resource of the world. What we pay for it is definately less than the value people have put upon it.
 
Actually, I have something to add about the gas prices. From an economical perspective, I think they're kept high because they're on high demand. It's the same thing with gold and silver. If we didn't actually value gold and silver, and they're not any different from any other lump of metal, we wouldn't pay big bucks to get our hands on them. I mean, even a small tube of gold costs nearly thousands of dollars just to get your hands on them. There's lots of things which if you take the labor required to find the resources and create the items we buy into consideration, they actually should cost less than they need to be. People are just charging more money for it because they know you need it, and don't really have a choice.
 
I have only read the first post, and even then partially, so with that in mind, here are my thoughts.

The United States of America....A "great nation, for those who are to be free and to do thier own bidding as they see fit" This is what many think when they come here. And they soon, realize, it is not always the case.

My main issue with the US (being form and living here, mind you) is the government. No i don't mind the political system, no i don't mind taxes, no i don't mind having an awesome military willing to help those in need.

What i do mind though, is the GOVERNMENT ITSELF! Our government is so corrupt. Like no fucking joke. So many secrets hidden from the public for "their own safety" Fuck that. I want to know EVERYTHING our gov. hides from us.

Well, rambling now, buuut, thats my main complaint, aside from not being able to find a job.

I mean, I really enjoy the IDEA on which this country is founded upon, but if stuff keeps going the way it does, I'll be moving out soon.

I don't mind cig prices goin up. It's more of a "damn" thought. Cause I can't do much to stop them from raising the prices. I know i can't do much and unless i decide to quit or grow my own tobacco, they know I'll pay the price to smoke cigs.

Idk, maybe this isn't the right place for my thoughts, just thought I'd share.
 
I agree with you in the idea the people just need to consume less. It is one of the point I was subtly trying to come across with. We complain a lot AND consume a lot.

And honestly even if we do pay for a large percentage of the oil price at the current time, is it really not worth it? Considering that america exploit those countries whom have oil and that they need to sell this resource (as it is one of the only things of value that they have to sell.) Is it really not worth every dime you are paying for it when peoples lives in other places don't outweight the desire to have the resource. People complaining about the oil prices don't consider these things at all, and thats what I was saying. Gas prices SHOULD be high because it seems to be worthy of war and its the only means other countries have to profit for themselves. Most Americans will only complain that the price is high because of that extra dime coming out of their wallets. Countries like America are flirting with wars for access to it because its abused by necessity, while coutries like China are keeping it in reserve and stocking up on it because they know whats going to happen when we run out of petrol. People could care less to batt an eyelash for those who like in the countries where it comes from and are being exploited for it. Thus brings me to the point of the "Self centered complaint."

There is no absolute price for oil. Its worth is determined by what you CAN pay for it by different groups of people. Its a resource of the world. What we pay for it is definately less than the value people have put upon it.
Perhaps. My point wasn't really to speculate with suggestions on what gas should cost, but rather that while some people consider the "free market value"(*) as high is merely a fraction of what some people pay for it, considering the bulk of the price here is tax upon tax upon tax. Not whining about it either as I don't even currently own a car nor do I need it, and I think it's a justified tax all-in-all. In some way, it's very funny. I don't know would I be laughing if my livelihood would depend on getting gas, but since that's not the case it does have some hilarity in it.

I do agree with you though, on just about everything :)


(*) there's no such thing, thank Xenu for that
 
I think this thread has taken an intresting turn of tides as for opinions. It began with a rant with some points hidden in the subtext yet available for debate, and honestly most people were agaisnt what was being said, and its completely changed sides midway towards the end.

I think honestly that a lot of Americans fabric as collective thinking human beings have become worn down or degenerated as a larger percent and I think this is a good thing to talk about. We can debate the change in Americans perspectives for the good or the bad. We can also speak about the difference in thinking between the different generations in America as well, I think that my generation carries a lot of the selfishness or ignorance that I was speaking about from the start.

I would like to continue this thread and encourage others to partake in it. Feel free to post your opinion about the original post or anything posted within the thread, just make sure to quote the direct lines you are talking about because it can become confusing if you do not, because this thread seems to cover a large number of topics and I dont want it to just turn into a gas price debate.
 
People have the right to complain, but to complain that you don't get everything exactly how you want it is just the epitome of laziness.

I hear people complaining all the time about the job market. What's funny is that on the one hand, I hear people complaining, and on the other hand, I see other people walking up and down my street at all hours of the day and night picking up bottles and cans. No complaints. I see people selling oranges and flowers on the side of the road. Taco stands, swap meets. You name it. You see where I'm going with this right? Immigrants make more of the "American dream" than most Americans do.

On the topic of immigrants...

There is a large population of illegal immigrants here in my area and...a lot of them are employed. Americans can complain as much as they want that immigrants invade the job market, but in the end, who's making money and providing for their family? Who's not on unemployment or government welfare? Who's not below mowing lawns or selling tacos on the side of the road?

Just take a minute and ask yourself...given the situation...would you:
A) Pick up cans from the streets / Grow a tree and sell fruit, etc...
or
B) Call the unemployment office
or
C) Make a baby and let the American population that does work pay for your sad consequences in life

I don't know how the rest of you feel, but when I see some fat lazy slob with 5 kids hanging off of all sides of his/her two FULL shopping carts loaded with chips and cookies and frozen nasty shit because they're too lazy to buy vegetables or cook a healthy meal...

And then they do that facking flick of the wrist with their EBT card like they've got it down pat after having swiped the thing 5000 times...

You've all seen this. This is what Americans do with the American freedom system.

I'm done ranting now. :wacky:
 
I've seen people from all corners of the internet complain more than any person i've met in reality. EVERYONE is hated by someone, or some people, somewhere. Americans get the brunt because 1)the US is the most powerful country in the world, and 2)it has the most overweight people in the world, which makes is much easier to mock. For all the bitching i've seen citizens of the US spew, i've seen just as much vitriol flowing from the mouths of other countries' residents. No one group of people is better than another. Not when we get down to the bases of human behavior. We're all capable of being selfish bastards, and all too often we are, all of us.
 
America is definitely not the most powerful country in the world. One of our biggest assets is allied assistance, and we're gradually losing this.

We're also now running into a negative defacit because we're investing our money poorly. Too much of our money is veered towards war and a false understanding of what the average american considers "poverty".

America is not disliked because our people are fat, nor because our country is powerful. People are fat all over the world, and the latter is not as true as it used to be. Americans are disliked because we are egotistical enough to think others don't like us 'because we're powerful'. This statement, in other words, indicates that others are...jealous of us. (?)
This is far from true.

We also create problems for ourselves and others by becoming involved in matters that don't concern us. For example...Americans claim to remain in Africa in order to bring some form of resolution or freedom to the innocent victims of Middle-Eastern dictatorship. Sorry, but that part of the world, unlike America, has remained adamant to their faith and belief system for thousands of years. For an American to step in and say that your way of life has been wrong for the last few millenia is obnoxious to say the least.

EDIT: The most powerful country in the world is China, no?
 
when i said 'power' i meant military power. i don't know who's the most economically powerful country. China is the most powerful? I'm skeptical, but i'll go do some research on that. In any case, the rest of my post stands.

EDIT: and before America started involving itself in others' affairs, Britain was doing it. Put other countries in a seat of power, they'll do it too.

EDIT2: also, look at any youtube video or forum comparing military might, flame wars abound. are nationalist Americans cocky? yes we are. are nationalists of other countries cocky? yes, they are.
 
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