Aerith
a small bud about to bloom.
Seriously, am I the only one who has a bad relationship with my sibling?
We've all seen those movies, the brother always defends the little sister and always looks after her and is even a bit protective. I want that so badly.
I don't have a good relationship with my brother, not at all. It's not like I want to have a bad one, I've tried so many times to make it a nice, good, clean relationship. But he just never quits taking shots at me. I already know that I am out of place with my family, why can't he just drop it and leave me alone?
Sometimes we have good days, and those days consist of never having to see or speak to each other for anything. I'm the younger sibling, he never takes me seriously when I stand up for myself because he probably feels superior to me, he always puts me down and picks on me and it's no use defending myself to him. People often say, "That's just what older siblings do, you're not supposed to let it get to you." Thanks for your words of wisdom, it really helps ... My relationship with my parents isn't amazing either, I feel as if they barely know anything about me, and their just not great people to talk to when you need someone. And this may sound childish, but they love him more. I can just see it. My mom always tells me to be nice to him and leave him alone because he's going through a rough time (what the hell?), I leave him alone, it's been so long since I last spoke to him (if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, ha)
Has anyone ever had a good day, like a really good day where you have been smiling and laughing for real? And then have your sibling come, rain on your parade, and still make you feel like dirt?
I have. When I'm having a great day with my cousins, or my friends, I would be relaxing and my brother would just point out my flaws or mention me in a conversation with something that I hate about myself so much. I scream on the inside, "SHUT UP YOU ASS." I just never scream it outloud because it's no use. He just never quits, he always makes me feel like crap and that I'm worthless.
Am I a terrible person for wishing that he could just disappear so I won't ever have to see him again? Sometimes I want to punch him, kick him, to make him go away forever. But I don't really want that (I kind of do, but no 100%)
He's leaving for college soon, and I'll leave for college some small time after, I don't plan on living in New York all my life, in fact I want to go far away from here (to be a bit more adventurous, you know?) and all I want is to just make things right and know that we're on a new clean slate before we part (maybe for good), but we're not on the same page apparently. Maybe I should just give up
So how about you guys? Is it this bad for you? Or is it the total opposite, you have a great relationship with your brother/sister?
We've all seen those movies, the brother always defends the little sister and always looks after her and is even a bit protective. I want that so badly.
I don't have a good relationship with my brother, not at all. It's not like I want to have a bad one, I've tried so many times to make it a nice, good, clean relationship. But he just never quits taking shots at me. I already know that I am out of place with my family, why can't he just drop it and leave me alone?
Sometimes we have good days, and those days consist of never having to see or speak to each other for anything. I'm the younger sibling, he never takes me seriously when I stand up for myself because he probably feels superior to me, he always puts me down and picks on me and it's no use defending myself to him. People often say, "That's just what older siblings do, you're not supposed to let it get to you." Thanks for your words of wisdom, it really helps ... My relationship with my parents isn't amazing either, I feel as if they barely know anything about me, and their just not great people to talk to when you need someone. And this may sound childish, but they love him more. I can just see it. My mom always tells me to be nice to him and leave him alone because he's going through a rough time (what the hell?), I leave him alone, it's been so long since I last spoke to him (if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, ha)
Has anyone ever had a good day, like a really good day where you have been smiling and laughing for real? And then have your sibling come, rain on your parade, and still make you feel like dirt?
I have. When I'm having a great day with my cousins, or my friends, I would be relaxing and my brother would just point out my flaws or mention me in a conversation with something that I hate about myself so much. I scream on the inside, "SHUT UP YOU ASS." I just never scream it outloud because it's no use. He just never quits, he always makes me feel like crap and that I'm worthless.
Am I a terrible person for wishing that he could just disappear so I won't ever have to see him again? Sometimes I want to punch him, kick him, to make him go away forever. But I don't really want that (I kind of do, but no 100%)
He's leaving for college soon, and I'll leave for college some small time after, I don't plan on living in New York all my life, in fact I want to go far away from here (to be a bit more adventurous, you know?) and all I want is to just make things right and know that we're on a new clean slate before we part (maybe for good), but we're not on the same page apparently. Maybe I should just give up
So how about you guys? Is it this bad for you? Or is it the total opposite, you have a great relationship with your brother/sister?