Honestly this whole thing has just made me sick to my stomach and I hate to say this because it's been over two months now but I think I might be pregnant again. This really freaking sucks you guys, but I will do what I must to ensure the good future for my children, my husband is acting exactly like his dead beat father did.
Well, the best thing to do is to sit tight and wait until you can get a positive pregnancy test. If you are already at the stage where it'll show up - do a test. I'm sorry this is all happening to you - it must be awful, but you are probably doing the best thing for your children by not sticking with your husband. Good luck hun.