what i am trying to say is that using physical force such as punching, kicking, slapping, or using a wooden stick isn't the right way to teach someone something. becuse it will break all the friendship bounds. and it may make him\her hate everyone and and hate himself\herself which may lead to self injuring, that person killing himself\herself, or live and become a bully. if a child made a mistake we shouldn't use physical force to tell him that what he\she did is wrong. no we should use some other punishment as Hera Ledro mantioned. the ONLY time a person should use physical force is when you protect someone or something important to you. not whenyou hear that someone is going to hurt your friends or family. you only use it when you see it start. and there is a diffrent between using physical force to teach and using physical force to defened.