What do you think about womanizers?

[King Sean]

Graye said it perfectly. They will never feel true love unless they settle with one girl and actually love her

 

[Totoro]

I think that it comes down to your context and definition of the word womaniser. I presume that the original post is talking about being a promiscuous 'Russel Brand' type character. He openly admits this, (Russel does i mean) so hopefully there's no issue there.

I think that the situation isn't ideal, in a society that is largely driven by sex (the selling power of), people wanting to pursue other area's of their life rather than look for a 'mate' for life. It would by hypocratic of me to condone the actions, but what I think is important is you learn from it, develop as a person.

Mirroring a bit of what has been said before, sex is better in a loving relationship, but if you're not in a loving relationship or any relationship should you be denied sex? However I do think that a connection is made once you have sex with someone, it's such an intimate line to cross it'll be hard not to feel more for the person you are currently lying naked with on the bed/sofa/car seat/beach/sex swing etc

I don't think they're the scum of the earth, but I don't think that going out just to pick up girls is the best way to go about things. Oh and I've never seen a guy with a girl on each arm before! Maybe that's just what it's like in Newcastle! ha

 

[Bakusa]

"Womanizers", in my definition, are some of my most hated types. I really hate these people. Especially when they womanize their own girlfriends, lie to them, and force them to do things for their own satisfaction. I know a few people whom I'd love to beat the living shit out of because of it. I know one guy who somehow has a steady 6 month and counting relationship with his girlfriend, and he freely walks around flirting and being a creepy fuck to every single girl in the school. One of my friends spotted him "wrestling down a girl in the middle of the field".

Another guy is worse; has been dating a friend (I guess) of mine for quite a while. Upon countless other bullshit acts, he's laced her weed with something once, and she felt like she was going to die, and I'm positive he wanted her to pass out so he could fuck her. Things didn't go as planned so he "stayed there with her all night" and this is when she KNEW SHE LOVED HIM. Ugh. Other than that, he's trying to force her to get tattoos she doesn't necessarily want, he has sexual relationships with several other girls, etc. And she refuses to give him up.

Sometimes I just begin to blame the girl for being so fucking retarded.

 

[Mehaha]

Son, pull up a chair. *puts feet down in recliner, takes off glasses, looks at you with a stern gaze, yet a glistening is in his eyes*

Do I disagree with these actions? Yes. Their actions are wrong. Do you realize what a position this can put the girl in? Do you realize how emotional, how spiritual this act can be? You would have to be dead inside to not have a reminiscent attachment that you carry with you the rest of your life, when you sleep with someone. It's baggage that hurts future relationships; yours and hers. And of course there's the possible physical repercussions... But to be a womanizer is to be a salesman. You convince a woman you are selling something she wants, but really, you just want what she's got. No warranty offered, no refunds. Sometimes, sure, a woman doesn't mind getting played. But to treat women as sex objects is to forget they're human. It's to toy with them, manipulate them, con them.

However, in this day and age, it is something that women often offer without realizing it. Women are encouraged to dress in enticing ways, and to be promiscuous. Often, as I've seen, they think that's what you do when you're in love. However, this confuses guys. Guys tend to think of girls as either mothers, sisters, wife-material, or prostitutes, a "prostitute" being a girl he can have sex with, with no regrets. But girls don't usually want to be prostitutes, no matter how they dress, or if they sleep with you. They just want to be loved, usually. So, it becomes fairly easy to manipulate a woman into sex, and it feels fairly innocent to do so.

Do I think womanizers are the scum of the earth? Depends. I consider life to be difficult for everyone. Not only are there hazards and problems, but also temptations with unseen repercussions. I've known some scumbags in my day. I've also known some hopeless romantics who throw their hearts around recklessly, and this romance leads to an unwitting womanizing. I've even participated in both brands. Women are like a treasure; you just want it, even if you don't really have plans to do anything with it. And if sex is on the clearance rack, hearts will get broken. It's not always ALL the guy's fault.

I think con artists are scum. They're human, and weak, but they're scum. That's what a true womanizer is; a con artist. But a lot of them start out wanting one thing, then that thing turns out differently than they thought. These guys are often quitters. Both are womanizers, but not both are necessarily scum. Again, I've been both.

If you become a womanizer, I suggest you use protection, keep track of who and when and where (for legal purposes), and get help. Seriously. The party's fun in the moment, but you can't usually see how your recklessness affects others.

Take care, whippersnapper.

*puts feet back up, and turns the TV on. Asleep within seconds.*

Replying by paragraph by paragraph.

I believe in equality in this matter. It is just as much as her fault as it is his. People need to stop pissing themselves going boo hoo because she got dumped by some jerk type her mom was warning her about for her whole life and decided they were in love out of no where. So burdening them my ass they need to gets some visine and look at the world with "Clear Eyes". If stupid became a sex toy it's because she put herself on the shelf for sale.

Now if a girl wants to be a flirt and dress how she pleases I don't care either way. The responsibility lies on the parents anyway. My sister is the ditzy flirt without knowing it and dresses to show off her curves but... Even though my mom raised her without the pops arounds family all in all made her a good person. Why? Well she was the middle sister of two boys at the time and my mom who was wise for her years. She was taught to spot these male stupidities and reject what she disliked. Now when a guy is being sexual with her she gives him the old "Can you repeat that?" followed by two winks. If he is dumb enough to do it he gets a broken nose.

I agree with this statement.

Again I say it is up to the parents. I personally want my kids to do what I do and reply to con artists with a "Momma didn raise no fool". A con artist prays on the perfect target the greedy people. In this case people who want true love without serious work for it. I support con artists. why? They weed out the dishonest and greedy. An honest man or in this case women would be able to see that the other wants X for only Z amount of work... He's a con artist simple. I learned first hand from my uncle whos signature line is "If she can pay what she way she can stay"...

Graye said it perfectly. They will never feel true love unless they settle with one girl and actually love her

I follow a polygamist religion. My philosophy is that the human heart is infinite and has infinite love. And thus you can love an infinite amount of people the same. Otherwise we would give up after our teenage love years showed us infinite crap. I will admit I don't go over 3 spouses and I make sure my other relationships are cool with my current spouses.

 

[jasminepotts]

Do you disagree strongly with their actions? Do you give them any benefit of the doubt?

I honestly disagree with their actions. There are a few which don't actually realize they are treating women this way (while there are some that do know what they are doing) and are driven mainly by lust etc. Its often the case that the guy will charm a woman into genuinely liking them and then just tossing them out for the next woman. I'm capable of seeing through that in most cases, but its still something that shouldn't be done as it does emotionally hurt a lot of people. There are also a lot of girls like that as well, so its not just guys that do it. But its something we can't really prevent because its in their nature as people and its difficult to change people

Do you think that they are the scum of the Earth ?

no I don't in all honesty. There are people that do a lot worse. I still don't regard them as the most fantastic people in life though.

What would you think of me if I were to be one ?

I would probably be a bit weary of who you are as a person as most guys I know like that are really arrogant, charming (in a bad sense) and are liars. But that might not be the case and it really just depends who you are as a person