I know what you mean with those types of members, years back I used to be an admin for a previous FF forum and we had a fair few of them. I mean I have had a family loss as of late as I was talking to Judy who comforted me and several other forum members. It makes you wonder why they do it in the first place, to get noticed you need to do things for the forum, be supportive/creative etc. I am now using your avatar and sig, a nice change of style. I wish I spoke to you more to be honest and also what made you message me earlier anywhere