Do you have a significant other?

[Tedius Zanarukando]

My Jehovah's-Witness parents and brothers always insist on retaining ties with them, but they are actually trying to lure me back to that old religion. They have ruined my life and my views toward the female sex. It is going to be difficult to cut ties with my Jehovah's-Witness relatives, but I am willing to do so, so that I can write my own future. Some (like Lady Chaos and Darkstar) who posted on this thread do not even want me to have a significant other, and I agree with them on that. If you want me to have a girlfriend, you will have to treat me good enough.

 

[Serah]

And oh my God do I agree with them. You aren't even good enough to have a decent woman by your side. Hell for the shit you've said you don't even deserve to have a girl. All of your posts and your views on women make me want to puke, it's so disgusting and one-sided. It's pathetic.

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

I am so sorry about this. I am not trying to offend you women. I just do not want to be bothered with them on an intimate level. I am fed up with that strict Jehovah's-Witness upbringing. I am going to remain a bachelor gamer for all time.

 

[Rockman X]

My Jehovah's-Witness parents and brothers always insist on retaining ties with them, but they are actually trying to lure me back to that old religion. They have ruined my life and my views toward the female sex. It is going to be difficult to cut ties with my Jehovah's-Witness relatives. Some (like Lady Chaos and Darkstar) who posted on this thread do not even want me to have a significant other, and I agree with them on that.

Lawl, there's more of your "ZOMG IT R CONSPIRACY EVERYWUNS OUT TO GET ME!" prattle.

Look, I was raised by a psycho Christian mother, I was put in a Christian private school for 4 years, it was run by a Baptist church so extreme that even the Southern Baptists wouldn't take them. Those were the worst 4 years of my life, but I don't go around whining how it ruined my life. Why? Because it's IN THE PAST and I'm out of that environment.

You're not with the Jehovah's Witnesses anymore, you can change things. You say it'll be difficult to cut ties with your relatives? By hanging onto your "JEHOVAS WITNESSES RUINED MAI LIFE AND VIEWS" excuse you're not even cutting ties with the Jehovah's Witnesses and are letting the religion control you.

And btw, it's easy as hell to cut ties with your relatives xD

 

[Serah]

I am so sorry about this. I am not trying to offend you women. I just do not want to be bothered with them on an intimate level. I am fed up with that strict Jehovah's-Witness upbringing. I am going to remain a bachelor gamer for all time.

Then what the hell was your point in even creating a thread such as this when you clearly have a completely different view than most normal people on this? It did nothing but irritate and piss people off. Is that what you want? You've already given yourself a bad name here because of the way you perceive things. You constantly use the whole "I used to be a Jehova's Witness" excuse which is really old. Are you really 28 years old? If so start acting like one! You're a man! You've got an able mind (hopefully) that allows you to sever your ties with the whole religion thing, strike out and make your own decisions instead of letting some crummy childhood ruin what you could make out of your life. Let me tell you something, if I had let my childhood cloud my views on life now, I'd be dead.

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

Some things I posted on my own board and blog will not be posted here. Whoever linked to that controversial thread of my message board has spoiled this thread for us. If women do not want me, then I do not care. I do not hate anyone, and I believe that any person can change. I did not create this thread to irritate anyone or tick anyone off.

 

[Bei Bei]

My Jehovah's-Witness parents and brothers always insist on retaining ties with them, but they are actually trying to lure me back to that old religion. They have ruined my life and my views toward the female sex. It is going to be difficult to cut ties with my Jehovah's-Witness relatives, but I am willing to do so, so that I can write my own future. Some (like Lady Chaos and Darkstar) who posted on this thread do not even want me to have a significant other, and I agree with them on that. If you want me to have a girlfriend, you will have to treat me good enough.

That is such a lame excuse. Why don't you stop blaming others and start blaming yourself. Face it, you don't want to change which is why you are putting so much blame on everyone else but yourself.

I come from a country where we don't have the right to choose our own religion, and women are viewed in superior to men, but we live in the United States, and have the right to free religion. I now have the ability to choose whichever religion I want now which I already have, but my old religion didn't run my life still, and if you are so against it, then why the hell are you still letting it run your life?

Try taking responsibility for yourself. If you want to change your life, you at least have the ability to change it. I didn't let my old religion ruin my life, I was strong enough to change and move on. If you can't find the strength to move on, then you don't really want to.


Cutting ties with your families if that's what it takes, then sometimes you have to do it. I only stay in contact with two people from my family, one of my cousins, and my mom. The rest of my family don't even care if I exist or not anymore, and I'm ok with that. If they can't except me for who I am or what I believe in, that is there problem. If your family really respects you, or loves you, then they will respect your decision and care for the way you feel about their religion.

 

[Rockman X]

Some things I posted on my own board and blog will not be posted here. Whoever linked to that controversial thread of my message board has spoiled this thread for us. If women do not want me, then I do not care. I do not hate anyone, and I believe that any person can change.

There you go again with slapping the word "controversial" on your views. Your views aren't "controversial", stem cell research is controversial. Your views are just incredibly twisted and wrong. And the thread was spoiled the moment you started it, you should have known it would become a shitfest.

I honestly don't even know why I bothered trying to give you a bit of advice, you just ignored it as you have every other bit of advice in this thread.

Grow the fuck up and get a brain transplant.

 

[Dark Tidus]

If this thread is so offensive then close it.

 

[Serah]

Hmmm, how about no, Dark Tidus. Don't psuedo-mod, okay? The thread will be closed if it gets out of hand. Currently, this thread isn't getting out of hand.

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

I come from a country where we don't have the right to choose our own religion, and women are viewed in superior to men, but we live in the United States, and have the right to free religion. I now have the ability to choose whichever religion I want now which I already have, but my old religion didn't run my life still, and if you are so against it, then why the hell are you still letting it run your life?

Are you referring to the People's Republic of China (the country the "Made in China" label refers to)? I have a negative opinion about that country.

Romantic love is not my thing. It is not that I hate females. I just do not want to be too close them. I hate being called a misogynist or woman hater. I will have to distance myself from the family.

I will find out one day how to change my life. I left my parents' home on June 28, 2007, at the age of 27.

 

[Rockman X]

Are you referring to the People's Republic of China (the country the "Made in China" label refers to)? I have a negative opinion about that country.

No shit she is. And I doubt you could possibly have a negative opinion about them, since in your thread about giving female babies away you mentioned Chinese tradition and quoted some poem about a girl baby being a bad omen.

Romantic love is not my thing. It is not that I hate females. I just do not want to be too close them. I hate being called a misogynist.

You are one. Get used to being called it.

I will find out one day how to change my life. I left my parents' home on June 28, 2007, at the age of 27.

DO. NOT. CARE.

 

[Stella]

Wow Tedius, i have to say you are really pissin me off!! You are such a hypocrite, saying that you have nothing against women and then saying the next minute that if you ever had a daughter, you would give her up for adoption. That is soo sick!! You don't deserve anyone, the way you act about love!! You are going to live a sad, lonely life wishing you had paid more attention to something besides your videogames and frankly you don't seem to care that that's where you're headed. I'm only 16 years old, and I think I'm more of a grow-up than you. Get a life!!

Back on the topic, I have had a significant other. We went out for about 5 months, and I really liked him. Then all of a sudden he started ignoring me, and on Valentine's day he didn't give me anything! I suppose he just got bored, and didn't like long term relationships..

 

[Rockman X]

Wow Tedius, i have to say you are really pissin me off!! You are such a hypocrite, saying that you have nothing against women and then saying the next minute that if you ever had a daughter, you would give her up for adoption. That is soo sick!! You don't deserve anyone, the way you act about love!! You are going to live a sad, lonely life wishing you had paid more attention to something besides your videogames and frankly you don't seem to care that that's where you're headed. I'm only 16 years old, and I think I'm more of a grow-up than you. Get a life!!

QFT. And I think everyone is more of a grown-up than this crybaby.

Back on the topic, I have had a significant other. We went out for about 5 months, and I really liked him. Then all of a sudden he started ignoring me, and on Valentine's day he didn't give me anything! I suppose he just got bored, and didn't like long term relationships..

I suppose I should get back on topic too. One of my girlfriends was emo...this wasn't a problem at first because when we met we were both emo, but I grew out of it, tried to help her and she never took my advice. She would always complain about the stupidest shit, like "mai parents wont talk to me!" when all they spoke was Chinese and she couldn't be arsed to learn it. So I got tired of dealing with her stupid attitude.

My other gf was a fucking freak. I found out after we'd been going out for a little while that not only was she an otaku, but seriously thought she was a vampire. She would talk about how her canine teeth were longer than normal, and how being born at nighttime made her like part-vampire or some shit. Then one night after work (we actually worked together....), we were talking on AIM and she suggests I start carrying around a knife so she could have blood to lick up. I dumped her. Through a Myspace message XD I wasn't about to break up with her in person and risk being bitten.

So I'm just done with gf's for the time being. That and waiting till a decent chick actually shows up

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

I would not feel ready to raise a daughter if I do not get a son. I do not even have a niece, but I might get a niece (since my brother is getting remarried). I already have several glances of what it is like to raise a son, but to have a daughter is different. I would most likely be an abusive father if I get a daughter. I am inexperienced with fatherhood. I have been watching Supernanny, seeing how rough parenthood can be.

 

[Rockman X]

I would not feel ready to raise a daughter if I do not get a son. I do not even have a niece, but I might get a niece (since my brother is getting remarried). I already have several glances of what it is like to raise a son, but to have a daughter is different. I would most likely be an abusive father if I get a daughter. I am inexperienced with fatherhood. I have been watching Supernanny, seeing how rough parenthood can be.

You got your ideas on parenthood from a ripoff of a crappy show? You fail. Hard. Now just for the lulz, I present everyone with your post from your other forum. I'm not linking to it, so I don't think it's against the rules? Tedius should be an exception anyway

This is the way it is going to be if I ever get a wife. If it's a boy, then thumbs up. If it's a girl, then thumbs down.

"It's a boy" =

"It's a girl" =

Male birth message / Female birth message

The Doctor:
"I have good news for you." / "I have bad news for you."
"Congratulations, it's a boy!" / "Condolences, it's a girl!"

Tedius:
"Yeah! It's a boy!" / "Oh no! It's a girl!"
"My predictions came true." / "Nooo! It can't be true!"

Male Birth Dialogue Mockup

Doctor: It's a pleasure to be the bearer of good news. Congratulations, it's a boy!
Tedius: Yeah, it's a boy! My predictions came true. I'm glad I got a son and not a daughter. Now I have another hurdle out of the way. My wife, you are safe from fate, and I love you. My son, hence forth, you should be known as <my real name> Junior. Welcome to the world <my real name> Junior.
Doctor: It's a pleasure working with you. Have a nice day.

Female Birth Dialogue Mockup

Doctor: I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Condolences, it's a girl!
Tedius: Nooo! This can't be true! I wanted a son, not a daughter I'm so ill-fated. How could this be? Therefore, she will remain anonymous and I'm dropping her for adoption. I'm afraid to call her family!"
Doctor: Why are doing this?

 

[Stella]

I would not feel ready to raise a daughter if I do not get a son. I do not even have a niece, but I might get a niece (since my brother is getting remarried). I already have several glances of what it is like to raise a son, but to have a daughter is different. I would most likely be an abusive father if I get a daughter. I am inexperienced with fatherhood. I have been watching Supernanny, seeing how rough parenthood can be.

No shit you're inexperienced with fatherhood! You're not even married yet dude.. and the way you're going I don't think you ever will be..

First of all, it's not really all that different raising a guy or raising a girl when they're a baby. They just need three things: Love, someone to burp them and clean up there poop, and someone to feed them. As they get older, that's when you have your wife start teaching the girl what she should know, and you just have to be there to be the loving daddy. You wouldn't be an abusive father if your wife was there to help and show you what to do, unless you mean abusive like beating her, in which case I do hope you put your daughter up for adoption. And no one knows how to raise a child at first. That's why mistakes are important. You LEARN from them what you should and shouldn't do.

I think you have decided that no matter what, you are not going to have anything to do with women in any emotional way. Whether it be a wife or a daughter, you would rather be alone.

 

[RioDragon]

Wow... I thought this was merely going to be a convo about relationships, not another misogyny-fest... My thing is, deal with what life gives you. Sure, you can complain a bit, but deal with it. It's your own actions that effect what happens to you and the people close to you, anyways... Especially children... You only want to have male kids...? Then I hope you save up enough money for them to do that new pre-fetus gender-change operation when you knock someone up...

Otherwise, tough luck. Deal with it.

 

[Bambi]

I would not feel ready to raise a daughter if I do not get a son. I do not even have a niece, but I might get a niece (since my brother is getting remarried). I already have several glances of what it is like to raise a son, but to have a daughter is different. I would most likely be an abusive father if I get a daughter. I am inexperienced with fatherhood. I have been watching Supernanny, seeing how rough parenthood can be.

Are you for REAL? I was inexperienced at motherhood but you just learn as you go along. I honestly doubt any woman would put up with you. You would make her feel ashmed to be female. Raising a daughter is no different than raising a boy. At least not for the first few years anyway. My friend has a little boy the same age and we treat them the same

I suppose my opinions don't really count though seeing as Im a single mother with a little girl. Do you have any idea how offensive you are?

And uh, I still have no significant other and at the moment Iv decided I don't want one. Im so indecisive

 

[Cube]

Tedius................ weak. Most people don't know shit about raising a kid at first, its not exactly something you can just practice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As for saying you would be an abusive father if you had a girl thats just sick, theres never any reason to be abusive to a child whether you would feel comfortable raising them or not.
Not that I would worry if I were you thou do you really think anyone would be dumb enough to let you father a child if that is your attitude?!
Neway on topic i'm still enjoying single life for a while