I may not be perfect, but...

Channizard

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So there's something fundamentally wrong with all of us. Most of us won't see the flaws in others. Most of us only see these flaws in ourselves and inflict our own self esteem with issues that may not even be seen by others. We ruin friendships, potential relationships and skip dates because "OMG A PIMPLE".. or "These jeans makes my butt look fat.."

WELL I SAY NAY.

Here we'll come clean about our own self produced flaws and confess what we hate about ourselves. The scars, the love handles, there's no shame here.

However, one MUST follow it with a positive attribute that they like about themselves.

Myself, I suffer from scars. ALOT of scars. Everywhere. Acne scars, stretch marks on my legs from surgery #1, the surgery scarring themselves.. just.. ugh. My body has more cracks than a dried up riverbed. :gasp:

But.

My ass is pretty awesome. With my favourite pair of white jeans and the right top, I've got a rockin' white girl booty. And I'm damn proud of it. In fact recently with some gymming I was a bit distressed to realize it's getting smaller... above ALL things, one of the main things I like is getting smaller. :gonk:

Alright, now you don't need to go ALL out in one post, you can highlite one or two things and then bring up others when other posts come along.. discussion and the liek.

OK GO
 
Well, the one thing I kind of hate about myself is that I am extremely guarded. That means, if someone pisses me off, hurts me directly or in a way that affects me indirectly (like about family), I tend to hold a grudge against that person for quite some time. I do not forget and I do not forgive...depending on the person. I am incredibly stubborn. I will hold out, hold my position until...well, forever if I have to, which has driven away quite a few people and made me extremely cautious and wary of humans in general.

On the flip side, I think being that way has saved me from a lot of hurt. There was one point in my life, I think around 10th grade where I said 'fuck it', I'm not going to be stepped on anymore; thus, becoming a stronger person for it. I am independent, I don't tolerate shit and I can, if I must, brush a person out of my life if need be, regardless of whether it hurts or not.

Err, but that's just about my personality.

I don't really care so much about what I look like; at least, not so far that I would say "I refuse to step foot outside!" I look like I look and there isn't a whole lot I can do to change that.
 
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I also have a lot of scars, due to my own stupidity, being over weight (stretch marks) and all that crap -_-.

But, I love how nice I am. :)
I'll always help someone and I think that makes me pretty cool.

(I was guessing it didn't have to be physical) :)
Awesome idea Channizard I like this thread ^_^
 
Let's go withhhhh... my stomach for the hate. It's not flat, I've got scars from crashing an ATV into a tree and crashing that same ATV into a parked car (flew through the air on the second crash. It's fun 'til you land... well other than the handlebars cutting into my stomach. That wasn't too fun either.) and I hate being able to poke and have my hand sink in some. My self esteem's rather shit and I cross my arms over my stomach and wear sweatshirts a lot because I feel like people are staring and laughing. I'm sure they're not always... but that doesn't stop me from feeling like they are.

As for the like... as vain and stupid as this'll probably sound, my boobs. :wacky: I'm not flat-chested, I can hold up a top. I love having something I feel good about, love having something to draw the attention to. I used to hate them just about as much as my stomach, but listening to other girls go "Oh, I wish I had boobs! You're so lucky" must have some effect. :wacky:

I'll probably be back, since it was hard to say something nice. :|
 
Well, not really a personal problems thread, but sort of a fun thread to diss yourself and rectify it with a compliment. So I thought this would be more suited for Costa del Sol, because it is still worthy of a post count, in my opinion.

*Thread Moved to Costa del Sol*

While I'm here, I'll give my 2 cents. I suppose I could go on and on, more so about dissing myself, but I'll give 1 good one at least.

Sort of a double-edged sword, I suppose. I've always prided myself on having a broad amount of knowledge in almost every imaginable topic. And even though having such knowledge in many subjects is good, I lack superior knowledge in any subject. I always preferred to have my knowledge be expansive over being really smart in some aspects and a complete moron in others. So it's really a positive and a negative at the same time.
 
Well, where should I begin....:hmmm:

I guess I'll start with the con, since it's the easiest for me to think of. I am not strong. I hate the fact that people make fun of me for it, too. I want to do something, but the ones who make fun of me can handly kick the shit out of me, so I just don't bother. I am actually working on not being so weak, but it doesn't seem to be helping me all that much right now.

But because I am not strong, I am fast. When people actually try to kick the shit out of me, I start running. Fast. I've gotten caught a couple of times, but have somehow managed to get my ass out of the fire, so to speak. Now people don't mess with me because they know they can't catch me. I guess it kinda works out in the end. :hmmm:
 
Meoww, where do I start...

The one thing that I tend to hate is when I look back and notice how childish I used to be,
Another thing is my hair. It grows too fast and gets dirty quick.
I also dislike my teeth. the two front ones tilt a tiny bit, and my left fang is.. Up. Higher than the rest. I hate smiling. D:

Buuuttt, what I do like is my eyes.
I love them; they change colour! <3
Also, I quite like my body, I'm not too fat, not too muscly - But JUST right. <3
 
Well the main thing I hate about myself physically are my boobs.

They don't make me feel anything like a woman and it really depresses me sometimes.

However, I do have an awesome body if I say so myself. Flat stomach, nice butt and no cellulite in sight.

God doesn't give with both hands unfortunately. =/

I have more to add to this thread but will come back later. >.<
 
Is this just physically?

Coz Im like really strong:srsly: it takes 4 people to stop me:rage:

I am an arrogant prick.
And my over abundant amount of obnoxious sometimes get me into trouble and I can look like a tool quite readily, but mostly Im just cocky and arrogant,I can back it up so its all good I just wish I was a bit more gracious.

But physically? I suppose I would like to be a bit more muscular but that would take a lot of work and I am happy with my body as it is.

The positive?

Well Im not over weight, I dont smoke or drink, I like to like learn whenever I can.
I have a keen mind, I adore my Girlfriend:yay: and she is the bestest thing in
my life............apart from myself:smartass:

See there it is again?:rage:
 
I suppose my flaw would have to be that I'm very open about my feelings. If I'm upset or angry, it'll show. If I'm extremely happy, it's clearly read in my face. I'm just an open book. There are times when that's a good thing, but I have no control over them. There were people who thought I was very moody and emotional. Thinking about it now, maybe I am. :wacky: Physically, I dislike my height. I really wish I were taller. :rage:

I do like my teeth though (even if I had braces for a year). I haven't had to use teeth whitening products yet. I also like my hair, but I get quite a few bad hair days, so that's not as constant as teeth.
 
Pfftt...they are kind of a lot.I suppose.>.>
Ok let's see..:
I am emotional myself,sometimes a bit "over the board".I usually am good at hiding my exact frustration,pain,sadness or happiness.Some people said that my expressions says that all the time,as for my eyes[brownish ones] make me look "serious and scary".A main reason why I got myself glasses.

I looove my bosom <33 is just round,soft and just perfect for me ^^
Another thing,I like that I'm not to tall nor to small,I'm in like between[plus I love when the guy is taller than me :P]

My boobs..are errr..>.> OK? I guess.It would have been better to not be "this small" and I mean barely noticed[they are freaking an A cup :gasp: ] but..not a major problem.

When I'm pissed,I REALLY AM.At some point I hit walls,broke some knuckles[nothing to big] <.< I can stay upset over a person for quite some time and in some situations[like 80%] I do not forget what he/she has done to me.I may ignore that person for the rest of my life..

I got to a certain point when I said "screw it" and I stopped caring of what others may think,of ME or my own ways of thinking/speaking and so on.DO I seem like I care?No I don't."Now turn and walk away,you're blocking my sight."
 
Hate: My thighs

I've had a complex about them ever since I was in primary school. The tops of them are just like.. massive and weird and I hate them

Like: My legs.. as long as I bother to actually shave and take care of them haha, but they tend to look pretty good with or without tights, to a certain point, then I hit the upper thigh region that I hate

Hate: My eyes. Unless I wear mascara, I always look like Im half asleep or ill.. or a boy. I have rubbish eyelashes and small eyes in general really, I want big doe eyes with super long lashes ]:

Like: My back... even though I cant see it, probably why I like it hahaha, but yeah, I dunno why, I just do

Cba going into my personality flaws :wacky:
 
I hate it but I have many flaws that I still can't figure how to surpass :mokken: like being so close to my feelings, and having trouble how to share them cause I get too nervous at that occasion. I have fears of like living in a city and having a "normal" life like work 8 hours a day, 8 hours to rest, 8 hours to live (schedule is my favorite enemy). I'm not ready to have such an adult’s life, but I feel a need to. :gonk:

Perhaps, in the other hand, I have almost none problems at seeing myself at the mirror. OKAY I ain't the kind of muscled boy, but I'm average and I've just regular body (alright sometimes I complain about being skinny). And then I enjoy being able to respect all kinds of people like their race, where they grown, and whatever they did, I just love to know about people; only one exception: they can't disrespect me.
 
Geez, I think I've got more cons than pros. :hmmm:

I think my main problem is letting people in and allowing myself to trust them until they stab me in the back. That's happened for so many years and you'd think that I'd be more guarded, right? Well, no. Because of my too nice personality, the cycle tends to repeat itself. After this shit year I've had, I'm going to become more guarded. People can get really close to me and tend to turn their back on me. It hurts a lot. It's happened just recently and I've been in a reflective mood ever since.

Physically, I don't like my stomach. I wish it could be flat. But ever since I went to high school, I sort of let myself go and it's not the same anymore. My dieting attempts have somewhat resolved the problem, but I feel I've got a long way to go until I feel happy with it.

As for pros? Probably my legs. They're hardened by the muscle and I've never ever had to shave them ONCE. A lot of people don't believe me until I let them run their fingers down where the hairs are meant to be. There's nothing there and it's nice to know I may never need to shave them.

Another pro would be my eyes. I never really used to like them until I hit my teens. Coupled with the compliments I'd get and green is a rare eye colour, I suppose they're ok.
 
hmmmmm

physically im pretty comfortable with myself at the moment. About 6 months ago i would have said that i wasnt and that would be true at the time but now im much happier. Lost weight, put on muscle which helped my confudence in that area.

Personality wise there are certianly things id like to change. I like to think im layed back but that totally isnt the case, certain things annoy me ALOT and when im in a bad mood im in a BAD MOOD.
This wouldnt be so bad if the things i got angry and annoyed over were fair reasons. However its things i know myself that i shouldnt get raged about, things people say that are harmless and dont mean anything will get me pissed off. Theres even some people in general who i just get annoyed at, simply by being around them, its not that theyve done anything wrong, or even said anything which is offensive but i still get annoyed and i jsut cant bring myself to be nice.

Thats something id change for sure. Make me less of an arsehole please. Just a little bit less though.

oh and i like my hair :wacky:
 
My physical flaws are my belly, arms and legs just plain chunky and not toned. I do excersize 4 times a week though and can already see some change in my waistline and it's gotten a tiny bit smaller.
My personality flaws are definately that I am shy and procrastinate a great deal. I also tend to gossip when I'm bored and don't have anything interesting to talk about with a person.

As for the stuff I like about myself physically it would have to be skin, boobs and butt. I hardly ever have zits and I have small pores. And boobs and butt well cus that's what I get the most compliments on. xD
As for the stuff I like about my personality it would have to be that I have a lot of empathy and I am usually very upbeat and very kind.
 
Meh, I have the weirdest physical quirks about myself.

1) Widows Peek, Because of it I can't have longer hair or else it looks a bit odd, also I can't make the middle of my hair stand up unless I gel the shiznit out of it, which makes me look like I jizzed in it or something (something about mary)

2) I have a massive upper body and short lower body. I think I smoked to early and stunted my growth, I'm 6'0 and my legs are 30' out seam. Ever since high school if I don't pace myself my upper body can fall over my lower body if I break into a full sprint. My legs are muscular as hell, but that's only because it has to carry the rest of my body around when running/sports. I wish my legs were proportional.

3) Freckles. People call them cute, but I call them a disease.

4) Inability to grow a good looking beard. I have the weirdest thing where I can grow everything but a full blown beard, because there are two spots on my face that barely grow anything, and the rest .. I have to shave like 2 times a day to not get that afternoon itchy scruff.

5) My knees - I have weak knees. I can hardly do lateral movements and I believe that's why I tore my acl two years ago. They don't swell or anything, they just hurt when I've done too much in a sitting.

6) My back - Now this really makes me feel like an old man. I can lift a truck honestly, but for some odd reasons I still get back pains over the stupidest crap. It's like there are problems with the discs in my lower region. Occasionally when I'm conditioning, I start getting lower back problems, and then all of the sudden, I can hardly breath and get to the point of where I want to puke it hurts so bad.

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My likes..

Meh. I'm not ugly.. that's about it.
 
Firstly, I've got plenty of physical flaws but I won't mention them because after 2 minutes or so I consider them insignificant. Just thankful for my health ;)

Personality wise, I tend to get really lazy. I don't do too well under pressure, I daydream too much, I'm indecisive...however I'm still quite young and the list will either shrink or become longer.

I like that I'm a good listener, that I can appreciate the little things in life, and that I'm not one to judge by first impressions.
 
Well being Italian I have to say I hate my nose, something about it irks me every time I look in the mirror I cringe at the sight of it.

I hate my shoulders, because they are far apart and wide. I hate my bottom lip because its huge. I hate my round face because it looks like I never lost my baby fat :sad3:

But I like my Eyes they have a Native American or Asian shape to them, I like my legs, and I like my neck too.
 
Mentally, I'm totally at a loss to control my feelings. If I feel something, I'll let you know, whether through slumping my shoulders to not speaking for hours on end. Anger comes in very short bursts, but usually I slink down to a more depressed state especially since I come to think that most everything wrong with my life is my fault. However, I do feel a strong need to set things right no matter what people might think about me in the process (I don't know whether this is good or bad).:wacky:

I wish I could be a lot more industrious. I have the mindset -- I mean...if I feel like I need to do something, I'll set my mind to it until I get it done. But most of the time I just feel lazy and hardly get anything done when my mood isn't right.

Physically? Abs. :ryan:
 
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