Is it okay for a man to ever hit a woman?

[SapphireStar]

Well girls participating gangbangs, doing blowjobs too many times with too many individuals etc.. etc.. these are sexual acts what I believe are unacceptable.
Amongst those woman are ones that are highly arrogant and always having a big mouth and if those also try to physically hurt men , come one I would just smack her big if she touches me first.

Not all tarts deserve to be hit. Ever heard of tart with a heart? Not all are bad. I know a girl who sounds like what you describe and I dont think she deserves a slap. She likes doing these things and I dont think shes a bad person. She selfish, but not evil or a whore. What about the men who parttake in them? They arent innocent are they? But still she doesnt deserve a smack for her activities.

 

[charliepanayi]

Is this even a debate? Of course you shouldn't hit women, it's an awful thing to do. I'm not sure how anyone could argue otherwise.

 

[Robbiedbee]

I have never hit anyone before, but I think I'd have a much harder time hitting a woman than a man. If a guy hits me, I'd probably hit him back, but if a woman tried to hit me, I'd do my best to wrestle her to the ground and restrain her.

Obviously, people shouldn't be hitting eachother at all, gender aside. If a guy hits a woman though, he's pretty low in my opinion. I also fail to see how a woman might "deserve it". 90% of the time I'm sure there is a better alternative to lashing out at a woman.

 

[Ohri-Jin]

Not all tarts deserve to be hit. Ever heard of tart with a heart? Not all are bad. I know a girl who sounds like what you describe and I dont think she deserves a slap. She likes doing these things and I dont think shes a bad person. She selfish, but not evil or a whore. What about the men who parttake in them? They arent innocent are they? But still she doesnt deserve a smack for her activities.

You are right, but you did not read my statement thoroughly either.
If they would make the first move I probably would hit her back.

I have never laid my hands on a woman myself (in a wrong way that is)
but all I am saying is I can understand why some woman get beaten up. Im just being honest, I am not trying to offend anyone, if I did I apologize.


I also understand your arguments, a tart with a heart that might be true, I also know some girls that do the same thing, looking for love at the wrong places.


Well I have to go. So be safe you good girls!

 

[SapphireStar]

Is this even a debate? Of course you shouldn't hit women, it's an awful thing to do. I'm not sure how anyone could argue otherwise.

As youve noticed, some are disagreeing. I guess its how some people have been brought up perhaps? I couldnt tell ya why some are all for it. The only ones I believe need a slap are the ones who get drunk and randomly attack their partners. That angers me.

You are right, but you did not read my statement thoroughly either.
If they would make the first move I probably would hit her back.

That post was refering to the one where you describe the sort of digusting woman whom you would slap if she touched you. Im sorry if Ive misunderstood.

 

[Æon Flux]

ah true to the meek and mousey thing..My friends bf beat her yet when I went toe to toe with him he ran off....I dont stand for that shit to well so I have to agree with this.
But in the context of anyone hitting,not shoving, first they should get hit back. Femalse shouldnt feel confident hitting a guy because they are a girl and can get away with it,that is stupid period and if they feel they can just do it for whatever stupid reason they should feel the punishment for it,by getting hit back

 

[Shu]

Really? That bad? >.<

All depends how much they abuse it. People think that creatine (however you spell it) is all honky dorey, as in they'll only see the positive effects. Emotionally though.. it makes folks a little more .. intense should I say.

I don't disagree with using it, but there are reasons I've never touched it. I know the time I get called an Asshole or a Dick the most is right after working out, because I still have that adrenaline or my veins are still rushed with blood. I have no endorphines to actually make me calm down.. also it doesn't help that I listen to stuff that pisses me off more to get better results from working out.

I think most guys can say this with confidence, if slapped in the face, it's very hard to calm down right after.

I have no idea it depends on the situation, but to be honest I probably would smack her , once though , I wouldnt beat her to a pulp..or how you phrase that sentence properly..

In cases of domestic abuse though, the girl would win this and for very good reasons. Have you ever admittedly hit a girl after she hit you in the face? and don't lie..

Think for a second, you smack her, that means you lowered yourself to her level and also probably hurt her quite a bit more. If you grapple her to the point she's not hurting, but calmed.. and embarrassed.. that's that a bit different in my opinion. If she's on fire from alcohol, well I suggest being very careful, I've known ladies to pick up lamps, knives, car keys.. etc..

Self defense I agree with but not utterly swinging a fist, I know when I swing I don't just hit like a marsh mellow. That's what differenciates folks from being wife beaters/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/animal abuser - you know your self restraint.

 

[The Witch]

Well girls participating gangbangs, doing blowjobs too many times with too many individuals etc.. etc.. these are sexual acts what I believe are unacceptable.
Amongst those woman are ones that are highly arrogant and always having a big mouth and if those also try to physically hurt men , come one I would just smack her big if she touches me first.

What she does on the side isn't your problem and isn't an excuse for you to hit her. Your reasoning isn't the right reasons to hit a woman.

Is this even a debate? Of course you shouldn't hit women, it's an awful thing to do. I'm not sure how anyone could argue otherwise.

Good answer, man. *hugs*

I have never hit anyone before, but I think I'd have a much harder time hitting a woman than a man. If a guy hits me, I'd probably hit him back, but if a woman tried to hit me, I'd do my best to wrestle her to the ground and restrain her.

Obviously, people shouldn't be hitting eachother at all, gender aside. If a guy hits a woman though, he's pretty low in my opinion. I also fail to see how a woman might "deserve it". 90% of the time I'm sure there is a better alternative to lashing out at a woman.

You're a good man, mate. :3

The only ones I believe need a slap are the ones who get drunk and randomly attack their partners. That angers me.

Agreed. That is something the just sucks.

ah true to the meek and mousey thing..My friends bf beat her yet when I went toe to toe with him he ran off....I dont stand for that shit to well so I have to agree with this.

Are you very strong or stronger than the usual woman? I am very happy to see you chased off some ass that hit your friend. THAT is just kick ass.

All depends how much they abuse it. People think that creatine (however you spell it) is all honky dorey, as in they'll only see the positive effects. Emotionally though.. it makes folks a little more .. intense should I say.

I don't disagree with using it, but there are reasons I've never touched it. I know the time I get called an Asshole or a Dick the most is right after working out, because I still have that adrenaline or my veins are still rushed with blood. I have no endorphines to actually make me calm down.. also it doesn't help that I listen to stuff that pisses me off more to get better results from working out.

I think most guys can say this with confidence, if slapped in the face, it's very hard to calm down right after.

I can understand that. It's the same with some woman.

Think for a second, you smack her, that means you lowered yourself to her level and also probably hurt her quite a bit more. If you grapple her to the point she's not hurting, but calmed.. and embarrassed.. that's that a bit different in my opinion.

Exactly. A man might think they're not hitting very hard but to a female body it hurts a lot more. Holding 'em down is the best way to handle it.

I got a question for the males here.
When an average girl slaps or even punches you in the body(not the face), on a scale from 1-10 how badly does it hurt?

Now, how bad does a hit have to be for you to hit back?(counting from a 1-10 scale)

 

[Æon Flux]

LOl im not above average I have confidence in my skills to fight thats all.One can kill someone with one hit you know...I was raised to hurt if I hit so normally I dont fight at all its a ...thing...Like the saying if you pick up a weapon use it...fists are a weapon in my world so.... I try to be mellow about hitting

Anyhoo Its all about confidence realy most men back down to someone who stands up to them,me in my friends case...he was pushing her arround and i did not care for it so i confronted him. Most wife/girlfriend beaters back down when confronted with a female who wont back down and stand for that shit....
I am average though...im not like a chick dude or anything if thats what your thinking...
I must say though guys get props for walking away in my book...well if anyone can walk away its a damn fine thing.
Still if a female feels she can hit someone without consequence they are stupid and in my mind should be shown why they shouldnt hit out of whatever feeling they have because they might learn its better not to hit your bf because your drunk or whatever.
To manny females these days think they can hit out of frustration and not suffer for it and they should...as in getting hit back.

 

[The Witch]

LOl im not above average I have confidence in my skills to fight thats all.One can kill someone with one hit you know...I was raised to hurt if I hit so normally I dont fight at all its a ...thing...Like the saying if you pick up a weapon use it...fists are a weapon in my world so.... I try to be mellow about hitting

That's why you can make men back down. You have slightly more strength than most women. Me, I've got NO muscle strength nor do I have size on my side. I can't honestly go into a fight with a man expecting myself to stand a chance, unless I have a weapon, that is. And if my boyfriend is acting like an idoit and I give him a smack to the chest, does he have right to put a full force punch to my face?

Fists are a weapen on anyone, but only if you have the power to back it up.

Still if a female feels she can hit someone without consequence they are stupid and in my mind should be shown why they shouldnt hit out of whatever feeling they have because they might learn its better not to hit your bf because your drunk or whatever.
To manny females these days think they can hit out of frustration and not suffer for it and they should...as in getting hit back.

I agree with that. :3

 

[Æon Flux]

That's why you can make men back down. You have slightly more strength than most women. Me, I've got NO muscle strength nor do I have size on my side. I can't honestly go into a fight with a man expecting myself to stand a chance, unless I have a weapon, that is. And if my boyfriend is acting like an idoit and I give him a smack to the chest, does he have right to put a full force punch to my face?

Fists are a weapen on anyone, but only if you have the power to back it up.


I agree with that. :3

The last was my point all along=) Just took a while to get there.
And trust me I have like zero upper arm strength its all about knowing where to hit as opposed to hitting out of force

 

[The Witch]

The last was my point all along=) Just took a while to get there.
And trust me I have like zero upper arm strength its all about knowing where to hit as opposed to hitting out of force

Yea, I suppose. But what if a man knows where to hit and has the strength. That's the situation where a woman can't defend herself.

 

[The Illusive Man]

I have never, nor will I ever raise my hand to a woman, to me its suck a despicable act to do such a thing, it also works vica versa, just because a man shouldnt do it doesnt mean a woman should either.

I have heard stories of men that abuse women and women that abuse men, it makes me sick that people could behave in such a manner, I out and out detest anyone that would do such a thing.

Simply put there is NEVER an excuse to be violent with anyone of the opposite gender, ever!

 

[The Witch]

I have never, nor will I ever raise my hand to a woman, to me its suck a despicable act to do such a thing, it also works vica versa, just because a man shouldnt do it doesnt mean a woman should either.

I have heard stories of men that abuse women and women that abuse men, it makes me sick that people could behave in such a manner, I out and out detest anyone that would do such a thing.

Simply put there is NEVER an excuse to be violent with anyone of the opposite gender, ever!

Well said!

Hitting is NEVER the answer! Especially if the other person is weaker. >.<

 

[Æon Flux]

Yea, I suppose. But what if a man knows where to hit and has the strength. That's the situation where a woman can't defend herself.

That is true but I dont advise anyone to hit anyone its rather sensless imo. A good talk can work out manny a problems...and i prefer it that way myself.
If a male hits first against a female...well he shouldnt,realy no one should.
I cant grasp why a man would hit a woman first anyways....It makes no real sence to me...unless hes a wife beater or something akin to that....and if she stays imo she almost deserves it for staying with him...stupid women get no points in my world.
If a man hits me thats the last time his ass would see me thats for damn sure...weather I fight back or not
+rep for good discusion imo

 

[The Witch]

That is true but I dont advise anyone to hit anyone its rather sensless imo. A good talk can work out manny a problems...and i prefer it that way myself.
If a male hits first against a female...well he shouldnt,realy no one should.
I cant grasp why a man would hit a woman first anyways....It makes no real sence to me...unless hes a wife beater or something akin to that....and if she stays imo she almost deserves it for staying with him...stupid women get no points in my world.
If a man hits me thats the last time his ass would see me thats for damn sure...weather I fight back or not
+rep for good discusion imo

Yes, exactly. There's no reason to hit. At all.
It is nice to discuss this calmly. :3

 

[Espurr]

I support the whole idea of not hitting a woman, or anyone for that matter, to a certain extent. I do believe that the only time a man should ever hit a woman is only in cases of self-defense. If, for example, man 1 punches man 2, then man 2 will fight back in an effort to defend himself right? Let us replaces man 1 with woman 1. Why should man 2 feel he should restrain himself just because the one who legally assulted him first is a woman? What if the woman is fighting to kill? Are let her try to kill you? Long story short if a woman attacks you first don't be afraid to defend yourself. Any reason other than that is wrong though.

 

[The Witch]

I support the whole idea of not hitting a woman, or anyone for that matter, to a certain extent. I do believe that the only time a man should ever hit a woman is only in cases of self-defense. If, for example, man 1 punches man 2, then man 2 will fight back in an effort to defend himself right? Let us replaces man 1 with woman 1. Why should man 2 feel he should restrain himself just because the one who legally assulted him first is a woman? What if the woman is fighting to kill? Are let her try to kill you? Long story short if a woman attacks you first don't be afraid to defend yourself. Any reason other than that is wrong though.

I can see that. But if the girl is weak and just slaps the guy in the chest or face, does that man have the right to throw a full force punch at her face?

Hit and be hit. But a man should only hit a woman if what she does to him physically hurts him enough to cause some kind of major damage.

A man has more strength than a woman, so does a woman's slap to the face deserve a punch to the face?

I don't think so.

 

[Espurr]

Why is the guy being slapped in the first place? Did the guy do anything to deserve it or is she just randomly attacking him? If it's the first then the guy would be wrong, if it's the second then she should not be touching him in the first place. I hope I am making sense here.

 

[Rydia]

If a girl attacks first, I would recommend trying to restrain her, because you'll be the one that is in trouble. Just be careful because she might try to hit you between the legs. Also, girls can be nasty fighters as they are more likely to bite and scratch. (and I have been scratched by a girl, it was not pretty) If an abusive girl were to get hit after hitting someone else, I honestly wouldn't feel sorry for her.

Only hit if necessary because there are few girls that are very strong, tall, and built like men. I knew a girl that was 6 ft 2 and could bench press 300 lbs. Now she could do some real damage to a man. (I thought she was a guy until I got closer to her and she started speaking)