Do you have a significant other?

[Tedius Zanarukando]

My parents have oppressive, exclusionary, destructive, and divisive beliefs. They messed up my views on women and romantic love. That is why I have been behaving this way. Another reason is what I saw on the Internet, what I heard in my parents' church, and some of my past message board experiences. They were too strict, especially on me. They treated me worse than my brothers. They and their oppressive church were responsible for corrupting my views toward women. They influenced me to hate women. My mother was stricter than my father, and she was the one more responsible for corrupting my views toward women. I grew up with two brothers and no sister. For my unrequited love, my parents did not want me to be around her at all or call anyone on the telephone.

I am proud to be a lifelong bachelor gamer. I am not good at parenting. My brother who is my nephew's father does not trust me as a babysitter for my nephew. I would feel ashamed and jealous if got a daughter and my brothers both got a son.

 

[Rockman X]

My parents have oppressive, exclusionary, destructive, and divisive beliefs. They messed up my views on women and romantic love. They were too strict, especially on me. My mother was stricter than my father, and she was the one more responsible for corrupting my views toward women. I grew up with two brothers and no sister. That is why I have been behaving this way. Another reason is what I saw on the Internet, what I heard in my parents' church, and some of my past message board experiences. I am proud to be a lifelong bachelor gamer. I am not good at parenting. My brother who is my nephew's father does not trust me as a babysitter for my nephew. I would feel ashamed if got a daughter and my brothers both got a son.

K, I'm going to put aside being an asshole and give you advice one last time in a futile attempt to get some sense into you.

For starters, they very well may have messed up your views on women and romantic love. BUT you don't have to let that own you. People can change, you can change. People's views are constantly evolving over their lifetime, IF they are willing to except the natural changes.

Maybe you prefer to let your views stay ruined and keep your upbringing as an excuse for attention and pity. However, ALOT more people will like you if you're willing to open your eyes and let you're impractical views change. Wallowing in self-pity is fine and dandy when you're a teenager, kids that age thrive on it. But you're 28 dude, you've got to move past that stage. You don't wanna end up like my dad, a 59-year old drama queen blaming everything on others.

Secondly, of course you're not good at parenting, it's a learn-as-you-go process. As for getting a daughter instead of a son...you've really got some issues you need to work out there. But if you truly feel that you would be abusive if you had a daughter, then I recommend staying away from wimminz or just getting a vasectomy.

 

[Nightsway]

Let's break it down

My parents have oppressive, exclusionary, destructive, and divisive beliefs.

Doesn't mean you have to.

They messed up my views on women and romantic love.

You have eyes, change the views.

They were too strict, especially on me.

Welcome to this new thing called life

My mother was stricter than my father, and she was the one more responsible for corrupting my views toward women.

How old are you? How can you possibly blame your mother, or indeed anyone, for your sick mind

I grew up with two brothers and no sister. That is why I have been behaving this way.

... Eh?

Another reason is what I saw on the Internet, what I heard in my parents' church, and some of my past message board experiences.

Close your eyes, Cover your ears, and dont use message boards

I am proud to be a lifelong bachelor gamer. I am not good at parenting.

Unless you're really lucky (or unlucky), you can only have one, mate.

My brother who is my nephew's father does not trust me as a babysitter for my nephew.

so SOMEONE has brains in your family, huh?

I would feel ashamed if got a daughter and my brothers both got a son.

Ahhh, sibling jealousy, common amoung todlers, I believe

I started this post with a good heart, and wanted to help, but with just one paragraph of your whining little ways, I soon realised you're just trying to validate and justify something sick and twisted amoung people online, because your family have already disowned you.

How was that, am i in the ballpark with that one?


As for the actual purpose of the thread, I haven't been with anyone in a while, but that just makes it sweeter when i finally am

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

I am sorry about clinging to my oppressive upbringing. The more recent experiences at the message boards are not as bad. It depends on the staff and how they run the board. If the board staff is hostile, it is going to hurt. My bad experiences with women have affected me a long time. I have just moved out of my parents' home, and it will take time to rethink my life. During my sophomore year in high school, I outright proclaimed that I was prejudiced against females, and wrote a list of whom I liked to share a class with and whom did not like to share a class with. That was back in the 1990s. I am not like that now. I do not want to be judged by what I did long ago. I would be a more responsible man if I had a significant other.

 

[Rockman X]

I am sorry about clinging to my oppressive upbringing. The more recent experiences at the message boards are not as bad. It depends on the staff and how they run the board. If the board staff is hostile, it is going to hurt. My bad experiences with women have affected me a long time. I have just moved out of my parents' home, and it will take time to rethink my life. During my sophomore year in high school, I outright proclaimed that I was prejudiced against females, and wrote a list of whom I liked to share a class with and whom did not like to share a class with. That was a long time ago. I am not like that now. I do not want to be judged by what I did long ago. I would be a more responsible man if I had a significant other.

Don't apologize for your upbringing, apologize for offending nearly everyone on these forums. Seriously though, you're 28, grow up and leave your upbringing behind. You live on your own now, that means you can start fresh. Quit blaming your parents and their religion for all your problems.

Bad experiences shape us, yes, but you don't have to let them control you. Just put them behind. And you need to do some serious self-evaluation and maturing before you have a significant other. Just because you have a gf/wife doesnt mean you'll become more responsible.

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

I did not offend many people on the message boards. The only ones who are actually offended are the feminist extremists (or those who follow the beliefs of Catharine MacKinnon), and those who do not distinguish between antifeminism and misogyny (such as you, VengefulRonin). It is not right to equate antifeminism with misogyny, because that is hate-baiting. That is like transforming dissent into heresy and moral bankruptcy. Antifeminism is about hating the political movement, not the people. Please, I do not want to discuss about feminism or female fashion any further on this thread. Some of my beliefs about women that I picked up recently are based on the Apostolic faith. It is hard to leave my upbringing behind. My parents insist that I remember my upbringing and retain ties with them. I just do not want an intimate relationship. Intimate relationship can lend itself to oppression and financial slavery. I do not believe in hating people. I believe that a person can change. I distinguish between the people and the ideologies.

 

[Nightsway]

Dude, even if I had enough time to tell you all the wrong things you just said, I wouldn't waste those many months.

I'm offended by what you're saying, im not feminist, nor female, I dislike feminists just as much as people like you, or more diplomatically- 'Misogynists'

But honestly, you and only you can be blamed for yourself, i'm only 16, and good god, i'm seeing things clearer than you are, evidently. I don't know if you have a soul. And i know you wanted me to say that, cause i know alot of people like you. But you need to reflect on yourself... take like 2 years off, travel around china or something, and seriously, meditate on your life. It's obvious that you like debating this stuff. We don't want your life story, we just want one less moron on the forums, and one more Hyper guy, Like Ronin.
(Oh, and perhaps the 'G4m3r b4tch3l0R' lifestyle is what caused this problem, hmm? Oh, no, no, wait, it's because you were forced to be so hateful, right? Pfft.)

fin.

 

[Rockman X]

I did not offend many people on the message boards. The only ones who are actually offended are the feminist extremists, and those who do not distinguish between antifeminism and misogyny (such as you, VengefulRonin).

Uh, wrong....you offended like the entire female populous here. And anti-feminism is where you have a rational mind and realize men and women are equal. Feminists are crazy bitches who think men are all evil pigs out to get them. This board doesn't have any of those. You fall into the sexist, misogynistic category. You would help yourself alot if you would move past your denial.

It is not right to equate antifeminism with misogyny, because that is hate-baiting. That is like transforming dissent into heresy and moral bankruptcy.

Never was equating those two things. See above.

Some of my beliefs about women that I picked up recently are based on the Apostolic faith.

There's another problem, you're basing your beliefs on what Hebrews that died 2000 years ago believed.

It is hard to leave my upbringing behind. My parents insist that I remember my upbringing and retain ties with them.

The hell with what they want. You're your own person, you don't live with them anymore, you don't have to do a damn thing they say. They don't own you.

I just do not want an intimate relationship. Intimate relationship can lend itself to oppression and financial slavery.

Not if you guys learned to like...budget...and have separate bank accounts...and sign a prenup in case you divorce.

 

[Nightsway]

I can only speak for myself, but... I'm trying to help this guy, for a reason I'm not entirely certain. Am I the only one that thinks this guy is using this website as an 'Agony Aunt' style relief? 'Cause I feel like I should charge him for my services...

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

Did you know this? Some of the people I met at Wikipedia such as Krimpet, the administrator who kicked me out, are worse than the people at this board. They equate antifeminism with misogyny. They have hurt my chances of getting a significant other.

 

[Ryvius]

Tedius needs like...his own little thread to spew his misogynous babble. I guess that's what this thread has turned into. I wouldn't bother trying to help him or whatever, I think he just wants to talk. I almost suspect he's just yanking all our chains for some reason.

Anyhoo with the on-topicness. It seems like everybody around here has been getting together with somebody, must be post-valentine's day loneliness.

 

[Rockman X]

Did you know this? Some of the people I met at Wikipedia such as Krimpet, the administrator who kicked me out, are worse than you are. They equate antifeminism with misogyny. They have hurt my chances of getting a significant other.

1. Don't give a shit.

2. How the hell do Wikipedia admins affect your chances of getting someone irl? Talk about taking blaming people to the extreme.

3. LAWL.

 

[Nightsway]

If i wasn't so bored of you, right now, that'd be hilarious.
Theres nothing left to harm! You have no respect for women, and I have none for you. You're right, stay single all your life! Do the world a favour!

(lolz I just realized this guy is just like Henry VIII, I'm guessing I'm not the only person who sees it)

 

[Tedius Zanarukando]

If i wasn't so bored of you, right now, that'd be hilarious.
Theres nothing left to harm! You have no respect for women, and I have none for you. You're right, stay single all your life! Do the world a favour!

(lolz I just realized this guy is just like Henry VIII, I'm guessing I'm not the only person who sees it)

You sound hostile. Believe me, I have some respect for women. I am trying to get respect for women. I demonstrated it in real life, especially on the job. I just do not want intimate relationship with a woman. Those Wikipedia administrators went too far on me.

It is not that I just want to talk. I just need help. I am willing to let go of my upbringing and cut ties with my parents and brothers if possible. A negative attitude toward the female sex is NOT what I really wanted. What if I do get a significant other? I heard that someone who is much like me in some ways got married.

 

[Ryvius]

I just do not want intimate relationship with a woman. Those Wikipedia administrators went too far on me.

You're right, Wikipedia has ruined your life. You'll never be able to recover. It's all wikipedia's fault, they're as bad as Jehova's witnesses.

 

[Rockman X]

(lolz I just realized this guy is just like Henry VIII, I'm guessing I'm not the only person who sees it)

Actually you're the first person to make that comparison, but I can see it

You sound hostile. Believe me, I have some respect for women. I am trying to get respect for women. I demonstrated it in real life, especially on the job. I just do not want intimate relationship with a woman. Those Wikipedia administrators went too far on me.

First you come on here complaining about TFF, now you're complaining about Wikipedia. If you didn't throw your stupid, offensive views out into the open for everyone to see, you wouldn't get in trouble with so many websites.

It is not that I just want to talk. I just need help. I am willing to let go of my upbringing and cut ties with my parents and brothers if possible. A negative attitude toward the female sex is NOT what I really wanted.

Then go seek help. IMMEDIATELY. You need it badly.

 

[Nightsway]

I'm just annoyed with you blaming others. You can't move on, untill you experience both ends of the spectrum, you've spent alot of time blaming everyone else, now take all the blame on yourself. It's like a muscle, if you keep coming up with the lame excuses you're just gunna lock up. Although it sounds as if it's too late.

You know it make's sense, cause I used to be like you. Just cause everyone around you in your childhood ruined your life THEN, doesn't mean it can ricochet around your life! Screw it man, just liven up a little, men are worse than women. Just cause your mum wasn't nice to you doesnt mean that others won't be too. Find help man, before you get locked in a padded room with one of those dashing jackets with sleeves that tie around the back.

Don't Marry Until You Got Your Head On Right, Man! Concentrate on your life, and if you fall in love, and LOSE your biased views THEN think about that.

 

[SapphireStar]

Did you know this? Some of the people I met at Wikipedia such as Krimpet, the administrator who kicked me out, are worse than the people at this board. They equate antifeminism with misogyny. They have hurt my chances of getting a significant other.

Bullshit, youve done that yourself with your degrading views on women. Dont blame anyone else here as youre the one stuck in a time where women arent valued as people, but as objects that clean and look after their partner and child. Times have changed.

You respect women?!?! When?????????? So far on this forum, youve shown the complete opposite.

 

[Serah]

I am sorry about clinging to my oppressive upbringing. The more recent experiences at the message boards are not as bad. It depends on the staff and how they run the board. If the board staff is hostile, it is going to hurt. My bad experiences with women have affected me a long time. I have just moved out of my parents' home, and it will take time to rethink my life.

You know...if I clung to the way I was brought up, I would have already had my son taken away from me. The way my father handled me and treated me made me hate him yes, but it never ever once changed my views on men. My father beat the shit out of me as I was growing up clear until my mom finally grew enough courage to leave him and you're sitting here slinging bullshit like that around? Buddy, you don't have a CLUE when it comes to life. Your mind is so warped by video games, clinging to your past and listening to others instead of creating your own views on things, that it's pathetic. I was 15 when I was finally able to get away from my father. I delt with that for 15 years, but look at where I am now. I'm happily married to the man I love more than anything in this whole world with a beautiful child to show for it.

During my sophomore year in high school, I outright proclaimed that I was prejudiced against females, and wrote a list of whom I liked to share a class with and whom did not like to share a class with. That was back in the 1990s. I am not like that now. I do not want to be judged by what I did long ago. I would be a more responsible man if I had a significant other.

That is beyond ridiculous and you are so sick minded it makes me sick to my stomach. I hope I never meet you in a dark alley because if I did, I'd curbstomp you for how you are in regards to women. You don't even give them the benefit of the doubt and you have no real valid reasoning to show for it, just how you were brought up. Don't you have your own brain? You're own body, eyes? Can't you just let go of how you were brought up and stop using that and the whole Jehova's Witness thing as an excuse? I mean honestly, here you are 28 years old and acting like this. Hell, I'm 24 and more mature than you could ever hope to be.

 

[Koloth]

This thread is beyond rediculous. Tedius should get professional help. I think he is rapped up in total self pitty. Which is just plain sad.