I find it irritating how most guys in online games feel so compelled to add anyone who has either the words "Lady", "Girl", "Chick", or "Babe" in their name. They just are like on "stalking/flirting mode" and think that every girl that plays online also wants to flirt with guys whose vocabulary can be summed up with only foul language.
It is sick, it is irritating, and definitely speaks a lot for most gamers IQ. I only add women I know, and who send me an invite.
Oh and guys who just add girls and start sending them messages like "babe this" and "babe that" or "nice move, nice this, nice that" like pretending to be their online weapon tutor or something. GUYS! Stop pretending to be online smartasses! You are seriously giving a bad impression of masculine players.
Guys, we must understand that girls can play video game as good and even better than us. I once faced a "Lady****something" who handed most of our asses down...
They are there to PLAY, not to suffer from flirts from some random stalker.
This is actually really funny and has happened to me before. I remember playing RDR with my bf online, I leaned over onto the mic and commented on something and the whole room just burst out "OMFG A GIRL! A GIRL, WHO IS THAT?!"
..they didn't figure it out