Frankly, I think marriage is wrong no matter which parties are in play. I could care less about marriage itself, but the tax benefits which come from marriage should be equitable in its treatment to homosexual couples, even if not recognized by the state as 'marriage' per se.
If it looks like a duck and acts like a duck, it's a duck, but if you can't give everyone ducks, the next best thing would be to give someone a goose that quacks.
If it looks like a duck and acts like a duck, it's a duck, but if you can't give everyone ducks, the next best thing would be to give someone a goose that quacks.